Anilingus in a Hostel Common Room

by Sweet_tater

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Middle Eastern
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Montreal
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? sex-positive and forward
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 26
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

anilingus in a hostel common room

How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a gorgeous blond Brazillian traveller I met at our hostel. He was doing his laundry outside and my friend and I immediately found him awesome. My friend later told me that he was ‘mine’ as she’d had sex the night before. We chatted alone that evening about travel and connected well. I was quite attracted.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The next day he, my friend and I took a hot bath together at the hostel and then had drinks at the hostel after failing to find interesting bars in the area. I had worn my fuck-me dress, but during that time I got NO signals from him anymore. Only when my friend purposefully left us alone did the flirting pick up again. We were alone in the common room at 2 am when he kissed me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I straddled him and he unzipped the top of my dress to kiss my breasts. Then he laid me on my back, pulled up my dress, pulled aside my underwear and went down on me. He seemed to want to lick my asshole so I told him he could, and he did, which was amazing. Then I peeled off his shorts, got on my knees and blew him for some time. He rolled on a condom and fucked me on top. We had to be really quiet. I got on top and came surprisingly quickly, and he came almost immediately after. Then we made out, still horny, he fingered me while going down on me and then we 69ed. I finally blew him till he came in my mouth.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled a little and both approved of how good it was. I felt pleased and super turned on the next day- we hooked up again the next day and then he left the hostel after we talked for a while. I retain amazing memories and fantasize about it still. It was both clear that it was casual so there was no pressure or awkwardness.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friends. And they supported me very much and congratulated me

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fact that the tension built up undercover while my friend was around, only to be later unleashed

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That we couldn’t do it on a comfy bed for as long as we wanted

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It makes me feel a bit more confident, but otherwise it changed nothing

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I tend to get very attracted to some foreigners so he was one example of this.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I regularly engage in casual sex because it’s one of life’s pleasures. It’s allowed me to discover some extra confidence, femininity and power. I think i’ve become a bettwr lover and listener because of it. I’d like to see less social stigma surrounding casual sex for women.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I support it!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!