What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Slut (and proud of it), switch leaning more towards Dom
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Atop the Gate
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We didn’t know each other at all. We had a mutual friend that pointed out we were going to the same event. He had sent me a quick hi online and I told him where to find me. I didn’t think much of it, I get random messages from men more often. This all was taking place on one of the biggest LARP (medieval fantasy improvisation/acting) events in Europe and I figured he wouldn’t be able to find me in any case. I had already forgotten all about his message until this gorgeous man dressed in our enemy’s colors appeared at our campfire in the middle of the night. I knew from there the game was on.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After this meeting, there was some slight roleplay with both of us using our character names and roles for some light flirting. This led to us wandering around this massive campsite and getting quite drunk in the process. When we finally arrived at his tent (which he shared with some friends) I spotted the massive wooden doors flanked with two towers you could climb up. This was off limits to people but we manage to sneak up unseen. When we were up there and sure nobody could see us we started to kiss.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After some kissing and light exploring of hands, I got kinda desperate, drunk and horny me not being one for soft and gentle. I got down on my knees and got his cock free from his trousers before he really knew what was going on. After some light stroking and teasing with my tongue I looked up at his slightly surprised but full of lust face. I later found out that I had a somewhat inexperienced man on my hands, which is my favorite because I can show them lots of new tricks. I went full slut mode on his cock with him holding back his moaning as not to alert the people walking by. My favorite being deepthroating which earned me another gasp and shocked look on his face. I stopped just short of him coming in my mouth and asked him if he wanted to fuck me. Turns out he had been hoping for this and didn’t need any more encouragement. I was wearing a skirt with nothing underneath as it had been an extremely hot day, which yet again, made him look surprised. He gave a slight growl and I bent over while holding on to one of the railings while he fucked me hard from behind. Us being horny, drunk and both in need of a good fuck it didn’t take long for us both to orgasm and barely able to remain quiet. Afterward, we both cleaned ourselves as best as we could and sneaked down without anybody seeing us.
He offered to walk me back which let to another little play session in the middle of a fully open field. We were both wearing cloaks as part of our costumes so it looked just like 2 people saying goodbye and kissing. In truth, he had his hands down my skirt and made me orgasm again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The event lasted for a few more days in which we had two more (middle of the night) hookups. Both with us acting like drunk, horny teenagers. It’s a miracle we didn’t get caught but that makes it even more fun ;). It turned out to be something that lasted long beyond that event with us hooking up every couple of months or so.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Mutual friend that connected us, other friends.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It leading to much more hook ups and the risk of being found out.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to spend a whole night together in privacy.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, wasn’t my first casual hook up nor my last. Still a big fan of casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would like to see change in the way society views casual sex. Even though I wear my title as ‘slut’ as a badge of honour it is still considered something bad and that hurts. Why can’t people just have sex that is fun but without the whole judgement of people around it? If I wanna fuck a 100 men/women just let me and keep your bitching to yourself!
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