What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 64
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Schweinfurt, Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short Fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was looking for a particular sex toy for my sexually unresponsive female partner to try again to get her interested in sex. I got into a conversation about sex toys and why I was looking for this particular one with the attendant and another customer. I mentioned that my partner was extremely germ and body-fluid phobic hence her averse to finger-fucking. The other customer was a medical professional, and volunteered some sanitary disposable gloves he had in his car. When I thanked him, he suggested that we go into a back booth to watch some porn together. He seemed nice, genuine, and good-hearted.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went into the back booth of the adult bookstore together and didn’t even play a video. We just embraced, and for the first time in my life, I french-kissed another guy. I was surprised it turned me on. He was a little taller than me, and I could feel his erection pressed against me, as I’m sure he could feel mine.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we kissed, in the adult bookstore video booth, I started to feel his cock as he groped mine. I asked him if I could lick his cock and balls. He said okay, then let me undo his belt and pants, unzip his pants, then pull them down below his knees with my face against his erect cock and balls, still in his underwear. He helped me pull down his underwear and his nice big dick sprang free right in front of my face. He had a tattoo right on the engorged head of his erect penis, and I remarked that it must have hurt. Then I started licking his cock and balls. I licked the precum off the tip of his dick, then held his cock while I positioned myseĺf lower and licked his balls. Then I took his cock in my mouth and sucked it for a little bit. When I stood back up, he did the same for me, and commented on how I had such a nice cock, and that my female partner didn’t know what she was missing (as she refused to fuck me, and would only occasionally allow me to masturbate her by rubbing her clit). We stroked each other’s cocks, played with each other’s balls, rubbed our cocks together, and sucked each other some more. I turned around and faced the wall, then let him finger my asshole while he stroked my cock and I played with his. I would have let him take my anal cherry, except that we didn’t have a prophylactic or lube, and I was afraid of AIDS. He offered to let me cum in his mouth, but I decided not to cum. Neither of us did. Shortly after sucking and licking his cock one more time, and rubbing my face against his cock and balls, we both pulled our pants back up and I left horny. My partner/girlfriend has a limited sense of smell, so she didn’t smell his cock and balls when I came back and kissed her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I knew I would never see him again, but I treasure the memory of this erotic experience.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A positive bi experience. An emotional sexual connection with a guy that I didn’t know was possible.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it didn’t go further.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Made me a little more open to bisexuality.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It should be more openly accepted.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Glad it’s here.
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