What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The checkout girl in the aisle next to me was a cute mixed bbw (black and Spanish). In her early 20s, about 5’9, large butt, and smallish top(pear-shaped). She smiled at me and I took it as a cue to talk to her. Luckily the store wasn’t busy so I wasn’t stopping her from doing any work. I asked for her name and then asked for her phone number. She seemed a little stunned and instead asked for mine. I gave it to her and figured I wouldn’t hear from her and made my way home. I had a text received from her by the time I walked in my apt. We exchanged a few messages and she agreed to get a drink with me after I got off work the next day.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at a bar the next day, which I strategically picked as being in her neighborhood and therefore hopefully close to her place. We had a few drinks and in the course of our conversation, I made an excuse for her to come to sit on my side of the booth. After I showed her the frivolous thing, I put my arm around her and squeezed her (she was plush and sweet smelling). I pulled her in and we gently kissed. I suggested we go smoke at her place and she agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After smoking, we started making out again. I suggested we move to her room and she said that wasn’t happening. After fondling her chest(which was much larger than I had thought, small Cs) I slowly unbuckled my belt as we continued to make out and pulled my dick out. She gently stroked me as we continued to kiss. I stood up and she took it into her mouth with zero hesitation. She was such a pretty girl. I admired her as she expertly took my long shaft down her mouth with zero gag reflex. She then took my dick out her mouth and proclaimed we couldn’t do this. But what she meant was we couldn’t do this where we were, which was the living room. We moved to her bedroom and she got naked. I stripped and got on her bed, on my knees while she lay next to me and continued to suck me off. I continued admiring her body, taking in as much of the scene as I could, enjoying every second of the experience.
I asked if she wanted to sit on it and she said she did. I asked if she had any condoms and she said she didn’t. I asked if she was on birth control, also a no. “Well,” I said, “Guess I’ll just have to pull out and shoot on your butt.” She gleefully bent over and proclaimed it sounded like a plan. I spread her ass and admired her young pussy. The aroma filled the room. I rubbed my head against her lips and started to push in but could feel my balls surging immediately. She was so tight, I would end up cumming in her just from entry. I tried to gently push in a few times but would stop as I knew an eruption was imminent. I told her she was entirely too tight and that I needed condoms in order to fuck her properly, so she would have to just continue sucking me for now. She sucked me off for about a minute before I shot in her mouth, on her tits, and on her sheets. She told me I tasted great. We smoked some more, which instantly put me back in the mood. I told her I was ready and again, she stripped off her clothes and bent over. I pushed my beefy rod in and we instantly found a good rhythm. She had a big tabletop ass, just like I like. I leaned over her closer so that I could fondle her tits and kiss her neck as I pumped her from behind. We gently kissed as my balls gently slapped against her ass cheeks. After a few minutes, I pulled out and jerked off onto her butt. I wiped her down, we re-clothed and then joined her roommate who had come home sometime during our 2nd session, in the living room. We chatted a little more and then I bid her good evening. She walked me to the door and we kissed again before I left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went to a bar in my neighborhood and celebrated my good fortune with a drink. The bar was empty which gave ample opportunity to chat up the cute bartender.
As the lovely lady I just bedded lives in my area, I hope to see her again. Our conversation flowed easily and we had many things in common. I also want to give her a creampie, but only when planned against her cycle so the chance of pregnancy is at its lowest.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A female confidant I’ve known for years. She was pleased with my work but scolded me for not wearing condoms.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fucking a relative stranger, raw, after knowing them less than 24 hours.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Fucking a relative stranger, raw, after knowing them less than 24 hours.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I didn’t have a lot of confidence growing up and thought things like this only happened on TV.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We’re all just animals who want to hump and eat. If more people had casual sex, there would less crime. Everyone wouldn’t be so uptight.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s the bomb dot com.
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