What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Casual Sex With A White Woman
How long ago did this hookup happen? a few days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? G is an Australian woman, 43 years old, and single. She is taller than me and has a voluptuous body. G and I matched on Tinder and I was pleasantly surprised when she replied to me. We agreed on a quick meet-up after work during the week. I was thinking that a woman so much older than me would not be interested in a relationship, but I am a bit lonely so I decided to give it a shot. We had a nice, long chat at a restaurant. G was very friendly and we talked about our lives and interests.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A few days later we met up at the museum. It was pretty crowded inside but we had a good time discussing the artwork. At one point she grabbed my hand so we didn’t lose each other which gave me an erection walking with this older, big woman and everybody seeing that we were together. I like big women and at this point, I got the idea that maybe G was sexually interested in me.
After the museum, I suggested that we should have a coffee together but G replied that she would prefer to sit in the sun on the banks of the river. When we were sitting in the grass, she reached for my hands again and looked me in the eyes. I had a very warm feeling at that moment. We started making out on the lawn and eventually, she asked me to head back to her place with her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After some kissing and cuddling on the sofa, G suddenly took off her T-Shirt and bra in front of me and shoved her breasts into my face. I suckled on her long nipples that got really hard in my mouth. Her hands wandered under my t-shirt, so I got undressed as well. She then invited me to rub my penis in between her breasts. I did so and it was just as enjoyable as I have always dreamed. I had never practiced that with any other girls that I have had sex with. I then led her to the bedroom and I put my head between her legs. Her pussy was moist and hairy. I kissed her deeply there and then her all over her body before putting her cute toes into my mouth. G gave me a condom and I mounted her. We kissed passionately while we fucked. After I came, she gave me a blowjob until I was ready to go again. It was a wonderful experience, a dream come true.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we were exhausted from sex, G made us a meal and we talked about our situation. She said that she would like to stay friends. I agreed and then said that I thought the sex with her was wonderful. To my delight, she agreed with that.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a friend of mine. He thought it was totally weird that I had sex with a woman more than double my age.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The new experience of having sex with a white woman.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it is so unclear whether we can have a relationship. The age gap makes that a bit strange and I am not sure how she feels.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I got more confident about myself. This was the first time I have had casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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