What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Delhi, India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Mass communications
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? When I was in college, we were a group of four friends: myself, my girlfriend, another guy, and his girlfriend. Let’s call this other girl Nancy. We usually went on double dates and made out with our respective partners. Nancy had a nice figure (medium boobs and ass) with a saucy navel (which I saw for the first time when she wore a crop top). We did a lot of harmless flirting over text but had never thought of hooking up because of our respective partners.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I took part in a fashion show and used to rehearse under the stairs in our academic block. Nancy used to drop by sometimes to chat. On the second to last day, I had taken my camera to take pictures of the partcipants. Nancy, as usual, dropped by and requested to be photographed. As i was setting up my camera, she took off her jacket and started posing. She was wearing a deep tank top which revealed ample cleavage and cut deep enough at the back to let me oogle her smooth back. I got hard in my pants which she noticed, but she just smiled and left for her hostel. The following day she called me to hand over some medicines to her boyfriend who was unwell and stayed in my hostel block. We took a walk in the deserted campus area and out of nowhere had a bet that if she could walk straight on the fence, I could kiss her. I was more than horny and readily agreed, knowing that she was a bit tipsy and I’d get to taste her lips. As usual, she lost and we had a lip-lock. It started with a peck but soon we were smooching.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I could taste the alcohol on her tongue which made me more horny and we kissed for 2-3 minutes. In the meantime, I had rolled off her t-shirt and was sucking her boobs. The fact that we could be caught by a passerby made us more horny. I was surprised when she allowed me to take off her bra and t-shirt quickly. Next, I moved to enjoy her navel (which I had been fapping to a lot) and unbuttoned her jeans. Now she got scared and resisted a bit, but I was in the mood and took off her pants and panties in one go. I fingered her a lot until she came, and then I licked all her juices. She took off my pants and underwear too, and sucked it beautifully. I ended up erupting on her boobs. As soon as I rubbed my dick on her pussy and was about to enter her, we heard the watchmen’s whistle. We dressed up quickly and left the place.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We avoided each other for the next week since things had escalated so quickly that night and we had our respective partners. However, a week later we talked about it and she even admitted that it was her best time, but that we should stick to our partners to avoid complications. However, 2 years later, we again made out twice (with her boyfriend in the other room). Now we are in touch but have not been involved in any encounters.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, except one of my friends but that was years later. My friend was happy about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The thrill of doing it open with a girl who is in a relationship.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is cool as long as nobody gets attached or hurt in the process.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A good initiative to pen down your lust memories.
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