What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Iowa
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Five Months Ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We’ll call her A. She was a Caucasian girl a year younger than me. I met her at the gym. Her body was very athletic. She had B cup breasts and a very shapely, large ass. She was mostly an acquaintance but we hung out a bit more lately and we found out we had more in common. Prior to the hookup, I was very attracted to her but I had a GF and she was just a friend.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went out with a group of people to celebrate the holidays. We got pretty intoxicated and ended up dancing in the bar. There was a lot of touching and grinding. She could definitely feel my erection in my pants but it seemed like she was encouraging it. I ended up going home with her but I set up blankets/pillows on the couch. I got some water and we sat down on her bed and watched some TV. I woke up three hours later in a dark room. I had fallen asleep and she was laying next to me. I was drunk and horny. I kissed her neck and then whispered in her ear asking if she wanted to fuck. She said yes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I spit on my hand and fingered her a bit. She got wet very quickly. We got naked and I entered her from behind while spooning. There was no discussion of birth control or STI’s. I flipped her onto her knees and started fucking her doggy style. Her ass was amazing and I squeezed it. I felt her boobs, pulled on her hair and slapped her ass. I could feel my orgasm building. I pushed her face into the pillow and started cumming inside her. After I came in her pussy, I kept fucking her slowly. I mostly stayed hard and just kept fucking her. She reached behind me and started pulling my hips into her. I came in her again and then we both passed out. I woke up a while later to her blowing me. She got on top of me and started riding me. I slipped in easily because of her blowjob and the cum inside of her. We fucked again and I came inside her a third time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked about STI history, birth control and agreed it was reckless. We were both clean and she was taking the pill.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one else knows.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Cheating on my gf.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Her body is flawless and cumming inside of her was so hot.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was worried she wasn’t taking birth control.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really. Humans are sexual by nature and as long as you practice safe sex I believe it is alright.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it should not be negatively stigmatized especially for women. Live and let live.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is a great sight. I find it interesting reading other’s stories.
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