What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? China
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Daddy At The Kiddie Pool
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2016
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was poolside working on my laptop and was in the middle of a 2-week business trip to Dubai. Just as I looked up from the laptop, I saw him enter the pool area. And as he passed by, he dropped in a cordial ‘good morning’ in a tone so smooth it could kill somebody. He went on to the kiddie pool with his toddler, and I noticed him being so childlike with him. There was something about the father though that made me approach the pair and say, for the sake of it, “What a pretty son you have,” and he smiled knowing all too well. But that smile made my heart flip. Feeling encouraged, I spoke about my visit and the hotel food and how I disliked it. To my pleasant surprise, he offered to make breakfast for me, which made me wonder if he really sensed the burning of my loins, or if he was just being nice. Well, the next day, smelling fresh as daisies, I headed to his room, and he greeted me with that dazzling smile of his. And gosh, I could just smother him with kisses right then. “Behave,” my mind said.
He said he had to drop off the little one at the daycare. Subconsciously, I wondered where the wife was, but I let it be because my desire for this man superseded all good senses.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?
Having returned, we were back in his room, and I went to drink some cool water. As the cool water chilled my throat, I felt an arm run all across my waist and grab me, pulling me close to his already hard manhood. But even then, I didn’t want to rush the first time, so I put on some brakes as we headed to the bed. The glass fell, and we melted in hot, hungry kisses, eager to devour. He stripped me in no time, and his hands were all over me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started in missionary. He got on top of me and thrust forward but didn’t penetrate me. I gasped each time until he finally did come inside me. I came quickly; I was so wet. Afterward, I got on all fours, and he started pounding me from behind. I felt some warm liquid on my asshole. Then, I felt a finger in my asshole. I came again and almost fainted. He wouldn’t stop though until my face dropped on the bed and asked him to finish. We rested a bit. Then, I started to caress his member. He took some coconut oil and rubbed it on my hand. I continued stroking him. I wanted to feel him raw. As soon as it got hard, I got on top of him. He pushed me away and put on a condom. I removed it and sucked him. I wanted to feel it raw one way or another. He came in my mouth.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Great. I went to the beach with him, and then we went back to my room. It was a quickie. As soon as he entered my room, I got on all fours. He pumped me and left.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A friend.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I made a new friend and had a new experience that I could not achieve back home.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to see him again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It should not be stigmatized.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent forum.
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