Drunken (Attempted) College Hookup

by Haley

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: California
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Drunken (Attempted) College Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A friend that I met through a friend, we had been hooking up almost nightly for a few months.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to meet this friend at his frat house where I found him outside, incredibly drunk. Our friends and myself walked with him back to his apartment where he proceeded to take off his pants and fling himself on his bed. I had made him and his roommates dinner the night before so I went to warm up some leftovers in attempt to sober him up a little.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I brought in the food he kept telling me “sex first, food later” and trying to take off my clothes. I continued to feed him while he kept trying to take my shirt off and he kept saying he wanted to have “all the sex with” me. We had never had sex before but we had been very close. I found this whole situation to be very funny. This all continued until I left to go to a party, the whole time he was sporting no pants and a lovely boner.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No and no

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None needed

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I went over planning on having a hookup because I’m young and in college, it’s just what we do.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A LOT of alcohol for him, significantly less but still a lot for me.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He didn’t remember a thing and I got a kick out of telling him the whole story.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A lot of close friends who also thought it was fairly humorous

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Obviously wanted for him, not as welcome for me but not unwanted.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, nothing happened

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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