What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 39
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Raleigh
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Ex Wife’s Best Friend
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was my ex-wife’s friend.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at the local bar and there was a guy trying to get with her but I could tell she wasn’t into him. So she and I started talking. He grew uncomfortable and asked her if she wanted a drink. She asked for a gin and tonic, and I said, “Hey, get me a rum and coke.” She just laughed. He got us our drinks though.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went over to her house and sat down on the couch. Her shorts were shorter than her shirt, and her tanned legs seemed to go on forever. I started running my hands over her thighs and leaned in and kissed her. We made out for a while and I reached up and pulled my shirt over my head. She ran her long fingers down my chest, then said, “Not in here, anyone can see in the window.” She took my hand and led me to the bedroom.
We sat in the bed, holding each other’s bodies and kissing. After a few seconds, she stood, pulled her shirt off, and stepped out of her shorts. Even though her breasts were smaller than I was used to, she was skinnier and her tan legs seemed to go on forever. She got between my legs and unsnapped my 501s. She took me in her mouth.
After a few minutes, I sat up, turned her on her back, and went down on her. It didn’t take her long to come, and when she did I thought she was going to crush my head between her thighs.
“Fuck me,” she moaned, so I rolled on a condom and entered her. She was so tight! We switched positions a few times before I finally ended up taking her from behind, I pulled the condom off and shot my load all over her back. We fell asleep holding each other.
The next morning I woke up and got in the shower. When I came out she was waiting. “Sit down” she instructed, and I sat on the bed. She got down on her knees and took me, already stiffening, into her mouth again.
That was a great sight: my ex’s best friend in her knees in front of me, red-tipped fingers wrapped around my dick, sucking me off. “Come in my mouth,” she said. “Christy may not like it, but I do.”
That helped push me over the edge, and after only a couple minutes I unloaded in her mouth. She kept sucking, and when I was finally done she stood up. I hadn’t even noticed her swallow it. “Did you like that?”
“Very much.” She smiled and went into the shower.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hooked up for a few weeks, then I realized how crazy she was and ended it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Coming in my ex’s best friends mouth
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She got a little crazy
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I felt more desirable.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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