Examining the Doc



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? media
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? no
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? over 60
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5

Examining the Doc

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2011

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Judy was a beautiful lady from Kentucky I met online. Her photos showed her working in a medial office, and I later found she was a nurse practioner. It took me awhile to get her attention at first, then when we started texting, I found she had an adventurous side, and liked to engage in some interesting but harmless kinky sex. The only thing that separated us was distance, so she took a week off from work to visit me for some hot sex.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I picked Judy up at our local airport, and took her to a hotel where she could unwind, As we were driving to the hotel, I gave her a kiss and she gasped, then told me she was already getting wet. It was going to be a fun week. But I had a couple of things to do before we could hook up that night.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I had finished some work, I called her and told her I was on the way, I could tell she was ready for some fucking. We talked a bit when I got to the hotel, then settled in with some wine. Then things took a turn for the best. We started kissing, and I started to undo her robe. Her lovely tits spilled out, and I leaned in to taste them, sucking on her tasty nipples. She stood up and slid out of the robe, revealing some very lacy underwear and stockings. This just made me crazy. I undressed quickly, and we both started in on each other. She sucked my cock about the best its ever been sucked. I ate her delicious pussy, then we fucked for what seemed like hours. Very intense sex in lots of positions. Good solid fucking with Judy. The best part was we had a whole week to ourselves and it was really good. We traveled to a couple of other cities nearby, stayed in small hotels and fucked every night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She had to go back to her practice in Kentucky, and she wanted me to go with her, but I couldn’t pull the trigger on that. I still feel for her, but it is what it is.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? She loved all our sex

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I do miss our very interesting sessions. We took time with each other, and enjoyed the intensity

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is good, but you have to be careful

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its a good situation

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!