Ex’s Friend

by Newlyblonde

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Chef
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 200
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Ex’s Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was just on the verge of breaking up with my boyfriend and I decided I wanted to fuck his friend before I did. I’d had a little crush on him for a year before.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I messaged him with a flimsy excuse to get the conversation going then just invited him to mine.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were so drunk that I don’t really remember the first time. The second time was some of the best sex I’ve ever had. He loved eating me out so he spent a lot of time licking my pussy. He had the smallest cock I’ve ever had but I literally came so many times, I don’t know what he did inside me but it was incredible. He was an older guy so I guess he was pretty experienced. And considering how old he was I was amazed that he fucked me so much, it was every couple hours, an orgasm every time. He loved watching me play with myself too so the last time I rubbed my clit while I was sat on his dick and came so fucking hard. The last time we hooked up we teased each other for hours then started playing, he had me squirting all over my sofa and couldn’t get his head down to my pussy quick enough to taste it. I loved every minute, he had been wanting me for even longer than I’d wanted him so the feeling of both accomplishment and power was incredible.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We’re still friends and hang out occasionally. I don’t think we’ll fuck again now I’ve got it out of my system but if I’m horny then I would if he turned up at the right time

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device), Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friends, I’d told them before that I was planning it. Think they despair of my slutty ways sometimes but they were interested to discuss how a small dick could be so good

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Learning a small cock can be amazing, having so many orgasms, ‘winning’ what I set out to get

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I think he hoped it would go further

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope, actually reminded me what I’d been missing in that shitty relationship

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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