Current location: NZ
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Company director
Relationship status: Divorced
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 41
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Numerous
How long ago did this hookup happen? 19 years
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a 19 year old South African. He was tall, with long dark hair in a ponytail, and brown eyes. (Frequent CSP readers who’ve read my other stories may have picked up that I had a ‘type’ back in those days, and he was definitely of that type – younger, tall, dark, long hair). He was a surfer.
I had recently arrived in London after a trip to Europe and I was completely broke. I was looking for a proper, professional job, but that took time and in the meantime I had to support myself and find somewhere to live. I had bar experience so I found a job working in a very small pub in North London, which was a live-in position, with a room above the pub. There was just the manager and me, and between us we had to man the pub so it was long hours, but also quite relaxed. There were often only a few regular customers and it was fine towards the end of the night to have a drink or two with them and just chat to them. I really enjoyed this job, meeting and getting to know some of the local north Londoners.
Everyone who came into the pub was local, except for a small group of South Africans who had a flat in the area and came in quite often. They were a group in their late 20s and I got to know them.
After I’d been there a while, this younger guy turned up, he was the half-brother of one of the South African group. He was very cute and quite sweet and I enjoyed chatting to him over the bar. It got to the point where I’d be happy if he showed up. One night I went out with the South Africans to another, busier local pub and I ended up getting drunk and having sex with him. This story is about the second time we hooked up.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The South Africans were in the pub one night and it was quite busy and buzzing as there was a boxing match going to be on in the early hours of the morning that most people were planning to watch (Tyson v Bruno). Another pub up the road was going to have a lock-in (as it was supposed to be closed at that time) and screen the match. My young SA guy (T) asked me if I was going to come and watch the boxing and I said I probably would, but I had to finish up and lock up the pub that night. My manager was off and he was going to head up the road to the lock-in. Most people left my pub and went up the road and I waited until closing time with the few regulars who weren’t interested in the boxing. I cleaned up and locked up and walked up the road to the other pub. It would’ve been sometime between 11.00 and midnight.
The pub looked completely dark and closed as they’d blocked out all the windows, but I knocked on the side door and was let in and it was absolutely packed inside. I was a bit stunned and looked around to see if I could find anyone I knew. T was very tall and he was obviously looking for me, because he headed straight over to me and said hi. Then he said into my ear: would you like some speed so you can stay awake? I said yes please, and then I don’t quite know how, but in the middle of the pub he kissed me, a long, full-on tongue kiss, and he had the tablet in his mouth and passed it to me while we kissed. I swallowed it. I remember that moment vividly as it was so exciting. I hadn’t known if we would hookup that night, but at that point I did, plus it was a lovely kiss surrounded by all the hubbub in the pub.
We had some drinks and chatted to people and the speed started taking effect. After a while, he said to me he was really hungry and I was too, but there wasn’t really any food there. He wondered if we could order a pizza, but we thought it might be hard to do from the lock-in, so I suggested we walk back to my pub and order it from there, then come back to the lock-in. The fight was still hours off.
We went down to my locked and empty pub and let ourselves in and phoned for a pizza. We were just waiting in the dark for it. Then he put his arms around me and we started kissing.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed for a while and touched each other just standing up in the dark pub. I had a sundress on which buttoned all the way down the front and while we kissed he slowly undid the buttons starting at the bottom and moving up. When he reached the top of my thighs he rubbed his hand between my legs then pulled my knickers off and put a finger inside me. He then unbuttoned my dress from the top so my breasts were exposed but left it buttoned around my waist. He sucked my nipples. I pulled his shirt off and ran my hands over his muscly chest and back, then undid his belt and unzipped his jeans to get his cock out and wrapped my hand around it, he was so hard.
Still kissing and groping we shuffled our way towards the pool table. I knelt down and sucked his cock for a bit then he pulled me up by my shoulders and bent me backwards over the pool table. He knelt down and licked my clit then stood up and thrust himself into me. He was standing and I was lying on the pool table. We fucked like that for a bit, then he withdrew and turned me over onto my front, bent over on the pool table and he fucked me from behind. It felt absolutely amazing. In the distance I could hear a knocking sound but I didn’t really pay any attention to it. I could feel him getting close so I played with my clit while he fucked me and we both came. I loved the feeling of his strong young body hard against me while he came inside me and hearing him gasp. He seemed to cum for ages.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I was on the pill. No other precautions. We had used condoms the first time but not this time. We had discussed STI history and both said were clean.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I really fancied him! he was lovely and sexy.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, some alcohol (not a lot, not drunk) plus speed.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We stood up and after a while just hugging and kissing, we tidied ourselves up and rearranged our clothes etc. His cum was running down my thighs and I didn’t clean that up because I love the feeling of it and I wanted to have sticky thighs for the rest of the night as a reminder.
We then realised that the pizza guy had been and gone and we’d missed him. We grabbed a few bags of crisps and ate those, then went back to the other pub for the lock-in. It was a super fun night and we stayed up all night, drinking with friends and watching the boxing. From this night people knew that we were sort of together because we cuddled and kissed throughout the night.
I walked home at dawn and tried to sleep for an hour or two but couldn’t so ended up working the whole next day without having any sleep. There was a really lovely family party in our pub the next day with generations of this gorgeous and friendly mixed race London family, lots of old people and kids all having a fabulous time and I felt extremely happy that day, life felt very good.
I continued to hookup with T over the next couple of months and we became a little more like boyfriend/girlfriend, going out together as well, and there was a time when I had terrible food poisoning and he came and looked after me and cuddled me through the night and I thought at that point we’d gone beyond something entirely casual. We went away for a couple of weekends too. But it was always going to end as my job there was temporary. In the meantime I’d been looking for a better, proper job and I ended up getting one, which meant I had to leave the pub and move into a flat and I moved into an entirely different area, closer to the city. At this point I was still planning to try and see T because I’d become very fond of him, but I was a bit worried about how it would work and thought it would be difficult. In the end, we ended up finishing abruptly because a couple of his friends arrived from South Africa and when he told them he was seeing and fucking a 27 year old they had that same disappointing reaction I’d described in my Spa Pool story, which I think comes partly from a place of jealousy, where they said, she must be a horrible slut if she’s fucking you, you’ve probably caught something. You’ve probably got AIDS from her or at least some STD. He got quite worried and asked me to get tested. I said well of course fine – I had always periodically got myself tested because of my tendency to have unprotected sex, so knew that I was fine as of about 9 months before that, but said I’d be happy to get myself tested again. I went to a local hospital clinic and had full tests and then gave him the results, which were clear. He then told his friends, who said: you can’t get results that quickly, we think she’s made that up, she’s probably covering up for something. Honestly!!! So he came back to me and said: my friends said you can’t get results that quickly. I told him to ring the clinic and ask them himself how long it takes if he was really worried, but the results were genuine and at that point he seemed extremely immature to me and I thought it seemed like a good time to say goodbye, which I did. I haven’t seen him since. I was kind of mad at him at the time, but now I look back and just think he was very young and instead I remember him fondly for the fun times we had.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No-one in detail. I never told anyone about sex on the pool table. Generally speaking my manager who was quite a good friend knew that we were hooking up from this time and I talked to him about it a bit. He didn’t have any issue with it.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? the best thing was just how exciting and sexy it was, fucking on the pool table in the empty dark pub while on speed.
Nothing bad really, except maybe that we never got the pizza?
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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