Finally Tasted Cock…

by BBJ

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 53
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? retired
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Finally Tasted Cock…

How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? J worked in the office, and I thought he was cute. We flirted a bit, and although he was 10 years or so younger, he was very nice to me. He knew I was straight but interested, and he let me explore that side of me with him. He had a nice body, in shape, he was openly gay but not flamboyant about it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I suggested we get together, and he came over to my place. We went around the corner to a gay bar (the infamous “Cinch” in San Francisco). It was late afternoon, and we took a table for two and each had a beer while we talked about ourselves.

At a certain point in the conversation I asked J if I could kiss him. I had never kissed a man before, and he said yes, so I leaned over the small table and we french kissed. I sat back and we talked some more, and I told him how I wanted to suck his dick, and he said he was making a tent in his pants.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We finished our beers and took the short walk back to my place, with our arms around one another. At my place we got comfortable on the couch, with me soon laying on top of him as we kissed. I asked him if I could suck his dick, and he said yes. I undid and unzipped his pants and pulled them down, and started mouthing his dick through his underwear, eventually licking his tip had as it peeked out the top, and then licking and sucking more of his dick. I noticed one of his balls poking out the bottom and I sucked it for a bit.

I wanted him to cum but he didn’t want to, for some reason. We proceeded to my bedroom and on the way he dropped to his knees and sucked me, but I had trouble getting hard. We went to the bedroom where I wanted to 69, but as I laid down on the bed I came, and before I knew it he was on his way home.

Our second hook up was a bit better. I’ll write about that next time.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt ok, and we continued talking at work, with another hook up eventually taking place.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Never told anyone about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I liked the guy behind the first dick I sucked.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was nervous.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? More willing to try it again, now that I type about it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy reading the stories.

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