First Fling



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First fling

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 Years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Chinese girl, met her online. We chatted for a bit before arranging to meet. She was about 5’3, athletic/skinny build. About average looks but attractive bod, once naked she was definitely hot. It didn’t seem like she was into a casual relationship, I got the impression she was looking for something serious at first.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met for coffee once. I remember I didn’t like her body smell but the date went fine. At the end of the date as I was leaving she very obviously gave me a hug which made me realize she was interested. I didn’t think the date went too bad so we met up again. We went out to dinner the next time and walked around a few shops. During one of the times we were in the shop, I felt she would rub her breasts on my back in very obvious ways. Or she would rub her breasts on my elbows. She has small breasts but probably had push up bras to accentuate the feeling.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we were walking toward the car I put my arm around her and when she didn’t object I kissed her on the sidewalk. There were no people in this area near the parking lot. Things got heavy fast, I started grabbing her firm ass (She was wearing a dress) and rubbing all over her body. Her previous smell didn’t extend to her breath, kissing was a lot more pleasant than I anticipated. We continued making out in the street and I started to bite her nipples and slide my had inside her panties from the back. I quickly brought her over to the car and we climbed into the backseat. I sat her on top of me as we continued to make out and I kept grabbing her ass and biting her nipples with her giving moans of pleasure. At some point I put her on the side while continuing to make out and guided her hand into my cock which she started rubbing. I tried to rub her pussy but she was on her period so she proceeded to give me a blowjob. Her technique was great, she took most of my cock into my mouth and her tongue felt amazing. I started pushing my cock deeper in her mouth and this made her choke. At some point she said “You’re making me choke.” I didn’t say anything and just guided her head and made her choke on my cock some more. After a few more minutes, she came up for air and told me in my ear “You like making me choke don’t you?”, the way she said it was playful and almost daring me, it was so hot, and I proceed to fuck her mouth some more as she sucked and choked. At this point she was naked except for her panties and I rubbed her body as she continued sucking my cock. She was in doggy position on the backseat just sucking on my cock, it was great. I’m not sure how long this lasted for but it never seemed too long or too short.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t come unfortunately, it’s hard for me to orgasm from oral but it was very fun regardless. I felt great afterwards though. This was my first casual experience and I was surprised it came so easily and felt so great. We ended up hooking up a few more times after that including proper sex, all in the car, and never with the expectation of a relationship.

It was a nice experience, I do miss hooking up with her but that’s about it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Power / Dominance, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked about this with a few people. Most were surprised but happy for me. One friend in particular wasn’t but we have a history and a rocky friendship.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having a hot Chinese girl deepthroat and choke on my cock.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to eat her pussy. I did later and it was a truly amazing pussy.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It opened my door to casual sex. I had more casual sex partners later which I would love to talk about.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I used to be against casual sex. I was in a relationship that I had to end and never got sex out of it. I didn’t want to get in a relationship and hurt someone if I used them just for sex so I’m a lot more open to the idea of just casually hooking up with someone. Since it’s a mutual understanding, it feels great.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s pretty cool to be able to talk about it…kind of like showing off but anonymously. When I talk about this hookup with friends I try to not go into details as I don’t feel that’s good for myself or my partner. But I do want to brag about it because it was great. Being able to do it anonymously feels pretty good to me.

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