First Sex

by NAM

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What continent do you live on? Asia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Married
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? this is the first

First Sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 14 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A family friend’s daughter. She was older than me by 3 years. We used to meet at community gatherings. I had no feelings or thoughts about her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened at her house. I went to her house as my parents asked to do so after my classes. I was staying at her home for two days as my parents were traveling.
I went to her room to ask her some questions about my homework. and while I was standing by her door asking her on the bed, I kinda noticed she was in her miniskirt without any underwear. I could actually see….this kinda choked my speech and train of thought…and I somehow managed to leave without looking dumber.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We didn’t speak much that night at supper. The next day her parents went out. During this time, she came to the room, I was in to ask for help getting her stuff from the top shelf cupboard in her room. I said okay and went to help. She said she just wanted me to hold the chair to keep it steady. She went up and while collecting whatever she was getting dropped glasses. I picked it up and from that prone position looked up and could see up her legs… It was my first vagina up close and in person.
She teased me a couple of times that day giving me a glimpse now and then that evening, she invited me to join her walk in the park. I was walking along with my own thoughts in my head. She asked about my relationship. I was single and I said had not even kissed a girl before… She said that explains and asked me to follow her to a bit more secluded area of the park. At this time, I knew I might get a kiss but she lifted her skirt up front and said you can have a good look now…What a beautiful sight it was. She allowed me to touch her. I didn’t know what to do and when she asked me to kiss her there… I was actually kissing her there just as someone would kiss a cheek.
We went back to her place. Her parents asked us to join them for a night out. She refused saying she was not in the mood and I backed away saying it be better I stayed behind and allowed them a romantic night out.
As soon as they left, she came to my room fully naked. sat on the bed legs spread, telling me she will teach me a few lessons. That night after she was satisfied with my licking. She examined my cock, it was already oozing out precum. She sucked it a few times and climbed on top of me. She must have just gone up and down 3 or 4 times before I came. She giggled and sucked my cock clean. I was hard again shortly after and she climbed up on again…This time I lasted longer.
She taught me a lot of things the following month, I would meet her whenever I could she went to college after that. She brought home her boyfriend she met at college, so after that I sadly didn’t get any opportunities. She ended up marrying him…
But maybe because she taught me…I can’t easily forget her and still want to thank her, which I still haven’t. We have crossed paths a few times after, but never alone.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got educated in the art of lovemaking

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Older women are okay

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? this hookup didn’t

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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