First Time



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States/Dallas
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Programmer
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

First Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Black and White mixed, Curvy

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was working at a gas station, and she came to buy cigarettes. She wasn’t very patient at our first meet. She kept yelling that she doesn’t have time because there was a big line and I was too slow. We had a big argument and it left a really a bad impression on both of us. After a week she came again and apologized and we started talking. I was really shy to ask and speak about sex, but all of a sudden she asked if I had a girlfriend. You had to watch my face at that moment, it was glowing like a diamond. I was pretty desperate and I didn’t want to lose this chance so I said no, I never had one. She was surprised and told me I was so cute, how did I not have a girlfriend. She dug a little deep and inquired about my sexual life. She asked me how it felt without a girl when you’re 23 and I told her it has been so boring to jerk off to porn movies and hot girls visiting the store. I took a step and boldly told her that maybe she’s the one tonight who’ll be the queen in my fantasy. There was a clear shift in the conversation and we both felt it. She took my number and left. We had a casual talk and I asked her to teach me sex, to prepare me in how to behave in a relationship. I was honestly asking her to teach me since I didn’t know anything. She didn’t agree with me, but I pushed her pretty hard, feeling like I was on the verge of this event to happen. I asked her if we can hook up but she said no. After ten minutes I got a text message from her saying ‘I’m feeling kinky, get a Remy Martin and let’s hook up tonight.’

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After the text message, I went to my store and I bought a Remy Martin and a Trojan, of course (that’s her choice to get Trojan). I went to her apartment and the street was so dark. I’m gulping soda and looking in every direction to make sure I’m not being trapped by some stranger. She came out and we went inside. We had 2 glasses of Remy Martin, while she was looking into my eyes. I didn’t move my head a single inch and as I’m deep diving into her eyes. she came slowly to me. I turned her down on the couch and got close to her face, bit her lower lip and let her taste the Cognac on my upper lip. We kissed for a minute and I’ve been pressing her boob with my other hand inside her panties. She told me, “Let’s make this night more beautiful.” She directed me towards her bedroom and it was so beautifully decorated. She threw me onto the bed and let me stay for a minute as she went into the bathroom. I turned off the lights, lit two candles on two corners of the room, and plugged my phone into the speaker to play Salted Wound by Sia, which makes me feel more erotic. Then all of sudden, I heard a snap from the dark and there she was, in the little light coming out of the two candles. She was standing, holding her hands to the ends of the door with her naked tits glowing like two stars and my eyes followed her curvy shape, coming down to her cunt like an unopened tulip. She walked towards me and undressed me. She asked me if I wanted a blowjob and I was out of control after a few seconds. She wanted me to lick her but I felt gross because I had never done that before, and I disappointed her. I started to rub her clit and took her to edge of the world for a while. I threw her on the bed kissing from the feet to the forehead, step by step, slowly as a journey from Boston to Seattle, long and slow. Then I kissed her butt and fucked her from behind. I fucked her for a minute, grabbed her hair from behind, and threw her onto the bed. I kept fucking her, laying her on the bed upside down. I spanked her and I can still remember her scream, which made me more energetic as I pounded her. She asked me to land my dick like a jet in between the runway of her tits. Then, I fucked her from the side for a while and took her on to her table and I made her sit on the table in a reverse direction as I still kept pounding. I held her and took her into the bathroom, made her sit on of the sink, and kept fucking her. I felt like I reached orgasm and I said it’s going to be the end. She took my dick, kept it in her mouth, and told me to fuck her mouth. I did for a minute and I rained in her mouth. I then fucked her twice in her kitchen and bathroom. She asked me if I was really a rookie, and I smiled and told her my first experience was going to be the best. After that, we showered together and left her home at 3:00 AM.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt tired, still in touch but diff cities

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? First Experience

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Quick First Orgasm

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Good

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome

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