First Time with a Muslim



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Driver
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

First Time With a Muslim

How long ago did this hookup happen? This weekend

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was British Indian with beautiful dark black hair and brown eyes, very petite build and short with an amazing figure. We met on tinder and started talking and flirting throughout the week, eventually deciding to meet at her place on Friday night. I felt excited to meet her at first and didn’t expect as much to happen as it did.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So I arrived on Friday night at her place and she invited me into her room. She offered me a drink and I sat down opposite her bed facing her. We spoke for hours getting to know each other and asking each other loads of questions. This is where I found out she was Muslim, I didn’t expect anything to happen that night as Muslims do not believe in sex before marriage. She followed all their other rules including fasting, not drinking alcohol, and only eating hal’ar cured meat. However, this was so new to me and I didn’t particularly care. When it got to about 2 am, she asked if I wanted to stay. I asked where I should sleep and she said in her bed. She got up and took off the clothes she was wearing and got back into the bed, only wearing her underwear. So I followed her lead and changed down to mine and climbed in the bed next to her. I grabbed her and pulled her towards me and kissed her, she seemed pleased by this and climbed on top of me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The kissing got more and more intense and we started to run our fingers down our bodies exploring them. I threw her off me and laid her flat on the bed as I started to kiss her all the way down her body. When I got to her underwear, I slowly took them off making sure that she was comfortable with what I was doing. I threw them on the floor and pushed her legs in the air so her feet were balancing on my shoulders, I kissed her clit and run my tongue down, all while doing this I could deer her tremble. I continued to suck and lick her clit while I fingered her until she orgasmed. I moved up and asked her if I should get a condom, she said no because she didn’t want to have sex yet. So she stayed naked and asked for me to spoon her and go to sleep. I didn’t mind this as I was just happy for the crazy experience, as I started to nod off she started stroking my cock and got it rock hard, I thought she was just teasing me. She then pulled my boxers all the way down and laid back in the position she was in and all of a sudden, she just guided my cock into her still wet pussy. I was in my element and so caught up in the moment that I didn’t even think of protection. We fucked like that for a good ten minutes, I then laid her flat and put her legs around my neck once more. I fucked her again while rubbing her clit and I could tell she was close to cumming again. I pushed my cock in so deep she just came right then, her pussy clenching around my cock. She asked if I was close to cumming and I said yes and she asked me to put on a condom. I did and she climbed on top of me and fucked me till I had the most intense organism I have ever experienced in my life. I went home on Sunday and through the course of that weekend, we had to go out and buy another pack of condoms and we went through them all. We also had unprotected sex a lot, but I never finished inside of her without a condom.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was meant to leave the next morning, but I ended up staying the full day and night leaving on Sunday. We are still in contact, but we don’t know where it can lead as a Muslim and a white atheist aren’t exactly viable in a relationship.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal, Condoms, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We only spoke to each other about it

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing for me was definitely getting to try things with her, which has always been a fantasy of mine. I have always been attracted to British/Indian women.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That in the heat of the moment we didn’t always use protection, and I also don’t completely know how she feels about going against her faith and having sex before marriage

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I have always been open to casual sex and this experience won’t change my perspective.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Only that it was one of the best hookups I have had.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is a great way to have fun and get to know people. It shouldn’t be shunned upon and girls should be able to have casual sex without being judged or thought of differently. I plan to continue to have casual sex for a long time.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s great and it’s awesome being able to read about everyone’s experiences.

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