First Time With Someone New



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Director
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Time With Someone New

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at a college party. He was the designated driver so all his friends were high/drunk. I was hanging out in the bedroom hiding from this wasted guy who kept repeating he wanted to marry me. He came in too as we were the only sober people in the place by then.

We got talking and exchanged numbers that night.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He came over to my place on campus a couple weeks later and we watched a movie spooning on my bed. I was playing it casual wearing a cotton strappy dress with no bra. His hand crept up my thigh and gently stroked my clit through my panties. I started to get wet as his hand traveled across my stomach and held my tits. His boner was like a baseball bat in my back! We started to make out and he pulled off my panties and went down on me. It was my first time receiving oral and it was the most intense feeling I’d ever had. His tongue was like a tornado and my toes curled. After he made me cum twice he flipped me over and doggied me. He was bigger than my ex and I really felt him hitting my g-spot and cried his name. That must have put him over the edge and he blew his load. He held me tight as he came it was really intense. He kissed me goodnight and left before my housemates woke up.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He wanted to become more serious but I was on a rebound and just wanted some fun and laughs with a sexy guy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He saw me get up to use the toilet naked and told me I had “the perfect body”. I needed the confidence boost after my ex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Forgot condom and had to get tested.

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