Friend’s Toy Boy



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Opportunist
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100 men, 50 women
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several

Friend’s Toy Boy

How long ago did this hookup happen? Month

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Alan is in his early 20s and totally Gay. He was living with an older friend that I have known for some time have had sex with several times in the past. He has a good income & has kept younger guys, who he meets in gay bars or store clerks, in his home. He had Alan living with him for a few years. Often, Rich would take me into his bedroom to fuck me, and Alan would stay in the living room. I did have the hots for Alan. Rich did not allow his boy toys to fool around with other people, he said that he paid their expenses, provided food, why should somebody else have fun with them.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day I ran into Alan at the store. I looked around and didn’t see Richard. We talked a little before I told him to get in my car. Once we were inside, I grabbed his crotch and we started making out. I drove to a gay bar I knew, that had great toilet booths used for other things.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We stripped. He had a nice butt & a cute prick. I started fucking him and finished way up inside him. Then, I got down & sucked him off, swallowing the load. By then, people were outside waiting for booths to empty and some people were watching over the top, which is a problem with gay bars. We agreed not to say anything to Richard. A week later, Alan called me & said that Rich was away so, I went over & stayed for two days. Constant fucking, sucking, kissing.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Waiting for the next call.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told some of my fuck buddies

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The next time we hooked up

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is my life so I can do what I want

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? These things need to be talked about

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