Friendship Lust

by Aditya

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Friendship Lust

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was my office colleague who had just joined that year. Since we were working on the same project, we used to talk a lot and often shared a cab back home. The talks started changing from casual to a bit intimate over a period of time and we could sense some sexual tension between us. However, we were careful enough not to involve in any kind of regretful decisions.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had been smoking up at my house on a Friday night when I received a call from her that she was at a party and would meet me on her way back. She came to my house around midnight and we had a few beers and few more joints. Since she was high, she started talking about her sex life with her long-distance bf. That excited me a bit since she was wearing a tube dress which revealed cleavage making me hard in my shorts. After a while, we decided to sleep on the same bed and I hugged her from behind. Later, during the night, she turned towards me and out of horniness, we had a long smooch.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kept on kissing and I peeled off her dress and sucked her boobs. As soon as I entered a finger in her, she moaned a lot and further pushed my mouth on her nipples. I had reached a point of no return and took off my shorts to fuck her pussy. However, due to the guilt of having a bf, she stopped me from penetrating, but we kept making out. Later, we decided to take a shower together and I started rubbing my dick along her slit. She was too horny and pushed my dick into her pussy. Finally, we fucked under the shower kissing each other madly with my both hands exploring her ass. Before it was time to cum, I took out my dick and pushed it into her mouth and sprayed semen on her tongue. After that, we went back to sleep and again had a morning makeout in which I ate her pussy when she was on a call with her bf.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We acted casual after that and decided to remain friends. However, next month we again had sex twice after getting drunk.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Unexpected sex with a hot friend.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I became more open to casual sex with friends.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Sex is important to all of us and nobody should act shy about hooking up.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great website to share sexual experiences.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!