by Steve blasts
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Palm Springs
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? RN
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Fun With Student Nurse
How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was younger than me by several years and we met in nursing school. We never tried to hookup but I always thought she was cute. She had large breasts, dark hair, and brown eyes.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had just graduated and had to go to Long Beach for two days of exams. I had not planned on hooking up while we were there. Most of us had motel rooms close to where the exam was.
I was in my room and Jan knocked on my door asked if she could study with me since her room was full of girls and It was hard to study. I said yes. I don’t know if she came for sex but that’s what ended up happening.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
We sat on the bed studying. I had short loose fitting cotton shorts on that my junk had a way of falling out the leg of. I know she saw my balls several times but didn’t seem to mind. After a while, she was resting her hand on my bare thigh near my balls. I suggested we take a break. We laid down facing each other. I pulled her into me and we began to make out with my hands going to her ass to pull her into me. One hand went to her breast and worked it out from her bra so I could suck her nipple. We got undressed and she began to suck on my cock. I pivoted around so we were 69ing. After a while, I slid inside of her and was able to get her to cum once more before I emptied inside of her. We laid there playing with each other for a while and after she sucked me hard again we went back for seconds. Unfortunately, she couldn’t stay the night and that was the last time I saw her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great the next day but we didn’t get a chance to talk and I didn’t have her phone number so we never got together again. I left her a hickey on her inside thigh to remember me by
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex. Took my mind off exams
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Didn’t go on
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It has its place
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great
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