Having Fun On The Farm



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Native American / Alaska Native
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Stay-at-home wife
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Having Fun On The Farm

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Joe is in his mid-40s, black hair, brown eyes, tan and very fit. He owns a 15-acre farm outside of town with horses. He’s a traveling welder and is away from home for weeks at a time. Joe’s wife of 6 years divorced him because she didn’t like farm life and helping take care of horses and other animals.

About me. There is a strong Native American presence on my mom’s side of the family. I’m 5’8”, long black hair, brown eyes, dark skin, and 36 DD. After having two kids, I currently wear a size 10 cloths and could me considered curvy. By the way: my breasts developed early in school. I enjoyed the attention and became ‘popular’ with the boys.

I’ve been married 3 years and have 2 kids. When I first met my husband, I thought he was attractive, full of ambition and fun to be with. Now, he stays drunk and bounces from job to job. Plus, he’s always working a ‘get rich quick’ scheme. I don’t think he’s attractive anymore because he’s got a beer gut. It sounds bad for me to judge because I still have some weight from having 2 kids but I can still turn heads when I’m out. We rarely have sex anymore because he can’t get hard. We had a bad fight because I thought he may need to see a Dr. but I’m sure his problem is from drinking.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had been looking for a job for extra cash and one night my husband came home drunk with a phone number from a guy he’d met at the bar. He owned a farm and needed someone to watch the place and feed the animals while he worked out of town on occasion. The next day, my husband called Joe and he invited us to his farm to discuss the job and pay. My husband was too hung-over to go so I took the kids and left. The first time I seen Joe, I thought he was an attractive man. I was wearing an old tight t-shirt and ‘mom’ jeans but he still checked me out, which was a very nice feeling. I got the tour and agreed on the pay. He would be gone for at least two weeks. I took the kids with me on the first two days but it was too much to handle so my parents kept them when I had to work.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The summer was hot, the place was secluded and the barn had an outdoor shower. I found a ‘pre-baby’ bikini and started wearing it to work then shower off and change before I left. The following Wednesday, Joe came home because the job got finished early. He kept staring at my boobs. I didn’t mind and began to flirt. I looked down and one of the triangles had moved one of my nipples was showing. It had been so long since I had sex, I was aroused and took off my top and told him I was going to shower. While walking away, I untied the bottoms and let them fall as I walked. He watched me shower naked. I dried off and we went inside his house. I gave him one of the best blowjobs I could. We had amazing sex and he came inside me.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I still work for Joe 3 days a week even if he’s not out of town. I’ll cook, clean and help out on the farm and we have sex. Joe is obsessed with my butt so we started doing anal. I’ve never done anal with my husband but I have with guys from my past. I forgot how much I enjoyed it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A close friend. She was excited and loved hearing the details. A priest during confession. He said a prayer of forgiveness for me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex with a sexy partner.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I can’t think of anything bad. It’s all good.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I was raised in a strict Catholic home. I should feel bad or have feelings of regret for cheating but I don’t.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Before I started having sex with Joe, I had thoughts of leaving my husband. Joe is a friend I have sex with. Neither of us want a relationship so this works for me. Currently, I have no plans on leaving my husband.

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