Having Sex With A Subordinate



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30s
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Phoenix
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Military
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Having Sex With A Subordinate

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Jessica and I were both active duty military at the time and were stationed together at the same base. She was my subordinate and I was her supervisor at work. Jessica was shorter than me, maybe 5’5″ or less, and sexy. She had curves, thick thighs, a small waist, medium size tits, a pretty face, a pretty smile, and she could dress very well off duty, but still looked hot in uniform. Jessica and I had flirted for about a year off and on in a pretty joking way at first which led to us both questioning if we were even joking about what we were saying until one of us (I don’t remember who) pretty much flat out said we should fuck. This was against the rules in all terms as again, I was her supervisor and the military doesn’t take to kind to rule breakers, which made things even more hot. I was replying in a month and would be gone for half a year, so we both figured we would have a short fling and call it good. Jessica told me she wasn’t interested in a relationship with me and just wanted to fuck. She even stated she didn’t want to fool around with oral sex, she just wanted me to follow her home from work and fuck her a few times a week. So I did.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We spoke about it over text one day at work. It was our Friday so I followed her back to her apartment, which was on the way home for me. Once at her apartment, we got into the hot tube and instantly began to fool around.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was late as we got off around 10 PM at the time. Jessica turned the jets on to try and mask what we were doing. We kissed as she pulled my trunks down and began to stroke my hard cock. I remember sliding her bikini aside to play with her pussy and that’s when I discovered she had her clit pierced. We made out while I fingered her and she jacked me off for a few minutes before she climbed on top of me and sat on my lap and I fucked her for a while in the hot tub.

After fooling around and fucking in the hot tub, she told me to follow her back to her apartment where we began to fool around more. I went down on her to get her wet again and played with her preaching with my tongue. She then briefly sucked my cock and I slide it inside of her. I fucked her on her back while she rubbed her clit until she came. The feeling of her pussy squeezing my cock as she came was too much for me and I pulled out and shot my load all over her stomach, chest, and face.

Jessica and I hooked up like this 5 or 6 times and then ended it like nothing ever happened. One of the best hook up experiences I’ve ever had.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fucked several more times and then went back to work like nothing ever happened. It was perfect. NO strings attached, just fucking.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends. I kept it secret for years until I was separated from the military as to not get either of us in trouble.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was hot fucking a co-worker who simply wanted to hook up and nothing else.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’ve always felt about the same. If its fun and doesn’t hurt anyone, why not do it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think the website gives readers and writers the opportunity to express positive naughty experiences that maybe they are too shy to share person to person. It also gives people the opportunity to see that others are interested in their same kink or have been through what they want or have done to help normalize peoples sexuality.

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