What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Kl
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? A lot
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Non
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on an online chatroom. He was trying to chat with me for weeks but I just ignored him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After weeks of ignoring his texts almost every night, finally one night I respond to him. It was around 1 AM and we both couldn’t sleep. He told me he was an almost 40-year-old, divorced single dad. In my mind, it wasn’t a smart move for him to be honest about his status when looking for a hookup partner. Anyway, we chatted for over 2 hours and he insisted on meeting up, he just wanted us to have a conversation in his car. I refused at first but later I agreed. When we met up, it was almost 5 AM.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He picked me up at my place. We talked and he told how horny he was at that time. He grabbed my hand and let me feel his erect and hard dick while he was driving. He drove to a place not far from my house, stopped the car at a parking lot and we kissed, hugged and all the fun stuff. He was a very hot guy and muscular. He said we were just going to talk, but no, he kissed me straight away, squeezing my boobs, sucking my boobs, nipples and grabbing my ass. We moved to the back seat and he asked me to lay on my back, took off my pants and he starts licking my pussy. Then he started fucking me so hard and deep that the car was shaking. His big cock fucking me so good. We had 2 rounds that time and he came after the second round. After that, he drove back to my place, dropped me off and went back home.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kept in touch and chatted a few times after that. In fact, we met again after one week and had even crazier sex in his house. It was one of the most amazing flings I’ve ever had.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Plan B / Emergency contraception
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend of benefit. He was shocked but okay with it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I get to know him.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes definitely.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Amazing experience.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Still experimenting with it, but so far love it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? No idea
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