How It All Began.



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Colorado
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Psychologist
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Wiccan / Pagan
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Exprimental/adventurous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 250 +
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

How It All Began.

How long ago did this hookup happen? over 15 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 5ft 3in with a hot round big ass and boobs to match, they were almost too much for her short frame. She had long thick wavy red hair. I often joked with her about letting me see if she was a natural red head. She moved in next door to my wife and I and we all became friends right away. But as time went on she got to know my wife and started to dislike her because of the shit she was doing when I wasn’t home.I liked her she was fun to hang out with but I didn’t think of her as anything but a friend.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I came home early from work and busted my wife fucking some other fool on my brand new couch. I walked out as soon as I saw them and Ms. Next Door was sitting on her steps, she came over to me and ask if I was OK. I told her what happened and she asked me in for drinks and to talk. I sat down in the chair I always sat in when I was at her house. She said she had to go to the little girl’s room and she would be right back. When she returned, she was totally nude and I instantly got hard. The look on my face must have told her what was in my head because she smiled and licked her lips while she walked over to me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She got on my lap and started to grind me and rubbed her large pink nipples on my lips. I took one in my mouth and she closed her eyes and leaned in to it. She got off of me and took my hand and took me to her bed where she got on it and told me to take her from behind like I was her boss. I couldn’t get my clothes off quick enough. I slid my hard dick in her tiny wet pussy and she gasped and told me I was huge and it hurt so GOOD. I asked her if she wanted me to be easier and she gasped, “NO, fuck me as hard as you want.” After a while she pulled off and rolled on her back and whispered get at it man. So I climbed between her legs and licked her throbbing clit until she came on my face. Then I gently slid my dick in her little hot pussy and started to fuck her softly. She told me to do what ever I want to her and don’t be shy.We fucked like teenagers for what seemed like for ever. After I came for the second time she asked to suck my dick clean so I pulled out and laid next to her and she sucked my dick until I came again.Then we fell asleep holding each other.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning I went back home and told my X to pack her shit and get the hell out of my life. We messed around for a while after that until she took a job in another state. We had fun, but it was nothing more than that and we both knew it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I learned I am not a terd like my X made me feel.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? NOTHING…

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, very much.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I have discovered things about me that I never would have learned without the events that happened.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? For me it has been amazing. I enjoy it and have found a partner that enjoys it as well Her and I fit well..”wink, wink”

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is fantastic.

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