by Renata MGr

Gender: Female
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Latin
Current location: Mexico City
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student/designer
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a guy from Israel, short, tanned and with long blonde hair up to the shoulders. He had a nice body as he is a professional surfer and he has tattoos on his arms and one on his leg. I met him on a beach in México, he was my next door neighbor back in my hotel. I did not talk to him much until we met that night at a club, we started dancing and he bought me some drinks. He was very nice looking and he seemed like an interesting person.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met that night again at the club after meeting on the hotel, his best friend was with my best friend so they introduced us. We danced together and he bought me some drinks. We were not as drunk but things started to get pretty heated up so I asked him to have sex with me back at his room. He agreed, we finished our drinks and went back to the hotel.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went in the room and I had to go to the bathroom. When I got out he started kissing me passionately, we smoked weed on a bong and seconds later we were already naked and making out. We had regular sex first, vaginal on missionary position, and it was very good. He finished but he was still into it, so we kept making out. I gave him a blow job but didn’t let me finish so he penetrated me again. He came again and me too. After that he wanted to keep going, I think he was pretty excited as he had had cocaine earlier but because of that he could not keep it up that time, so he went down on me and I came again. After that I think we just fell asleep together, he hugged me from behind, very sweet. Next morning I had to rush to my room to pack my things as I was leaving, but I went back to his room and had a shower with him. We had sex again standing up in the shower. We got dressed, talked for a while and agreed to meet back in Mexico City.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you
discuss STI history?
 We didn’t use any protection, but I told him not to come inside me and he agreed.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was hot and interesting. It was my last night on the beach so I thought why not.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had a lot to drink but I was fully conscious. He had some beers and two lines of cocaine before we met.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I gave him my phone number and he texted the next day. We didn’t talk much but arranged things to meet again in the city. I honestly just wanted to have sex with him again and I think he wanted just as well. But when we met again we found each other very interesting and nice, we had a nice time together not only sexually, so I ended up caring for him in a non romantic way.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some friends. They thought it was a great story, but most of them worried about the fact we didn’t use any protection.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, it was great.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was that I found him to be great in a non sexual way, so I learned to appreciate him as a person and not only for his sexual skills. It changed my way to look at one night stands, I discovered a nice person in this guy and now I consider him a good friend whom I would be glad to see again. Also, sexually, I experimented things the second time we met that I had not tried before and I enjoyed them. I don´t think there is a worst thing, it was all good.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I regret not having used protection. I was worried I might be pregnant for around two weeks and I’m still worried I could have caught an STD

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