by Lizzy Wilson
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Ontario, Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Housewife
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? at least 60
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
It Was Only Going To Be Lunch But…
How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was a bartender, and he was a customer. I found him very attractive.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We would talk at the bar, and I found him interesting. And one day, he said we should have lunch. It was summer, and he called me saying that we should have lunch on a patio. I met him at a restaurant, but there was no patio. So, we drove in his vehicle to a patio and had lunch and a few drinks. There was really no flirting although I was attracted to him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On the way back to my car, he said he had to stop at his office. He worked in construction, and his office was in a trailor on the work site. It was on the weekend, so there was no one around. He said to come in and that he would be about 10 minutes. I sat on a couch, and he went to his desk. When he finished, he came over and sat beside me. I started to say something, and he leaned in and kissed me. I kissed him back and it became very passionate quickly. I had on a sundress, and he moved his hand to my breast. When I didn’t resist, he kissed my neck and moved the dress straps off my shoulders to expose my tits. I was now getting very wet. He started kissing and playing with my nipples. I ran my hand over the bulge in his pants. He pushed me down on the couch and reached under my dress while I lifted my ass so he could pull down my panties. He spread my legs and buried his face in my pussy. He licked my slit and clit and slide a finger inside me. I came, and he stood up. I sat up so I could up unzip his pants and pull them down. He took off his shirt while I pulled his rock hard cock out of his underwear. I licked from his shaft to his shaved balls. I put them in my mouth and rolled them around. I sucked his cock until he stopped me and got me on my hands and knees. I was so wet and horny that his big cock had no trouble pushing inside of me. He held onto my hips and fucked me long and hard. I was in heaven. When he was getting close, he asked where he should cum. I said inside me. That sent him over the edge, and he pushed his cock in as far as he could and held it there while he shot his load deep in my pussy.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked a little. He knew I was married, and I knew he had a girlfriend, but it was still a fun encounter. We got together and fucked 2 or 3 times after that.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was great sex without guilt.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing negative
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No…sex should be enjoyable and guilt free.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is a great idea for sharing stories and it is nice knowing many people feel the same way as you do.
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