What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Romania
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Photographer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How long ago did this hookup happen? Today
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on Tinder and after a few lines we decided to meet for a coffee the next day at 12pm.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We talked one hour before. She was at the gym going to take a shower. She said she was hungry and suggested to eat something. I told her that I just had an omelet at home and invited her to cook her an omelet and some coffee. We joked about calling her friends to make some phone calls check on her from time to time to make sure she’s ok 🙂
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We talked, and had coffee and I made her an omelet. After she ate we sat on the couch and talked some more. She told me about herself. The conversation went a little sexual. She told me she liked it rough, to be dominated, to feel the strength of the man. At some point, I just grabbed her by the hair, put her on her knees with her hands behind her back and ordered her to suck my cock. She liked dirty talking and being slapped. She loved being called a whore while sucking my cock and being slapped. She was really horny while I fucked her face. At some point I let her take control of the situation. I laid on the couch and she made me a sloppy blowjob while I continued pulling her hair, slapping her and dirty talking to her. I came in her mouth.
After that, she went to the bathroom to fix her makeup and left to work. She was in a hurry.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Maybe I will see her again to tie her up and spank her. Who knows…
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I will talk about it with my girfriend. She will get horny.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think everybody should fuck everybody and be open about this.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome
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