What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Beaumont, TX. USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Industrial
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bicurious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Just Wanted a FWB
How long ago did this hookup happen? <1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met her on Craigslist via an ad I placed looking for a FWB because of my almost sexless marriage.
She was skinny with long blonde hair and a banging body but had a few miles on her face and smoked…yuck.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our first meeting was at a Starbucks where we chatted for a bit about what we were looking for, after about 30 mins I asked her if she wanted to continue our conversation in my car and she said yes. We kissed for a while and then I asked her if she wanted to go get a room and she did so we went down the street to the first hotel we came so and got a room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once in the room we jumped on each other likes dogs on a piece of raw meat. Within a couple of minutes we were both naked and she started giving me a BJ. She could really suck a cock too; after a really good BJ session she climbed up on top and impaled herself on me, bareback…yes I was a little bit worried as she was married too. We proceed to fuck like mad for the next three hours with us each experiencing multiple orgasms. At one point she actually came so hard she defecated right there. I didn’t mind, truly not into scat play but she came the hardest I think any woman has ever with me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt pretty guilty for a few days but got over that quickly as my wife kept rejecting my affections. Don’t get me wrong, I love my wife very very much but she has developed a ZERO libido and nothing seems to work to help her with it (medical- Doctors/prescriptions, etc.) We wound up meeting a total of 4 times and she went off the deep end; ready to leave her husband and all. I wasn’t; I’ve since realigned my priorities and my wife and marriage are on the top. I still talk with the other woman from time to time to see how she is doing which is she’s still at the same place in her marriage. I spoke with my wife about a lot of things (but never told her of my unfaithfulness) and we are getting things slowly back in line again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? I love my wife and I cheated on her, I betrayed her trust and faith in me.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Short of I got laid several times in a matter of a few weeks; absolutely nothing
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Betraying my wife
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? To a point; even before this occurred I’ve encouraged my wife to reach out and have more experiences; yes that’s right, I want her to go fuck a few other guys. I would love to watch and join in. I love watching her experience new things that she enjoys as well as watching her orgasm. So yes I would love for her to cuckold me, no humiliation; just some great get down get to it sex. Maybe even join in if she would like.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We still talk, I try to support her in her marriage and she in mine; have no plans of hooking up though.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? With having 100+ partners in my life (10 years of playing in bar bands really helped that number along) I think the right wind Christians have drove sex in to a moral low place. God told Adam and Eve to go forth and multiply; the bible is full of casual sex type stories. As long as all of the adults involved are consenting there where is the issue?
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Like it, needs a search feature to search specific works such as “cuckold” I’ve been sharing “cuckold” stories with my wife here lately and I think it’s finally starting to open her mind a little about it.
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