At Last…After So Many Years



What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? N/A
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Mostly vanilla but kinky at heart
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Forty plus
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One

At last……after so many years

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night, and again this morning

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I have know him for over two decades. We have worked together and been friends. I have grown to admire him and trust him like no other man over time. Because of our various marital situations and mutual respect we never had sex before. I am living through a nasty divorce and he is being kind and supportive, plus he has suffered a sexual dry spell recently.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He came over to check out my new digs, I plied him with vodka cocktails, my sad story and in a moment of mutual need we clung to each other.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started hugging and I could not met the opportunity go by, I kissed him passionately as I have been dreaming of for many years. I felt him quake and kept kissing and touching him… He became erect immediately and we just kept going. I took him in my mouth first and he felt so good… He went wild after that. Next thing we were both naked and stumbling to the bed. We fucked passionately and he took time to eat me out, then turned me back on my knees and continued fucking. I was screaming and had multiple orgasms… Even fell off the bed at some point.
He left quickly after that because he had to go home. When we met again this morning we redid it all over again and this time he came inside me, which was delicious.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We agree that we have missed out on each other too long. We are embarking on an affair together.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To cheer myself up

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Not a soul, this is our dirty little secret… which makes it even better!!!

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A feeling that I am following my heart and my cunt and it feels so good…

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Tiny bit of guilt, but not enough to hold me back. The only other regret is that we could have been lovers long ago.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? If anything this has solidified my desire to seek out and fully live my desires. Life is far too short to hold back especially when the act of sex, mixed with true friendship creates a special form of love we all need.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I hope to continue living this affair for quite some time. We both want to push our boundaries and will discuss our fantasies and plan future escapades, and share a wild ride together.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex or sex outside the boundaries of socially sanctioned relationships can be the most important in that they help reveal who you truly are and experience moments of sheer pleasure that amount to heaven on earth. Why deny ourselves ?

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think this is an excellent venture, it is fascinating, informative and provides an outlet in a safe, sane and collaborative way.
I hope more people learn about it and choose to expand their sexuality and attitudes about sex within this context.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!