What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
Last Minute Hotel Sex
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last Week
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was above 6’2, medium build white guy. He had blond short scraggly hair and a blond beard. We met on Tinder and had been texting for about a week, he kept mentioning getting together, but I told him that I would be more comfortable if we met up for dinner or something first, and he agreed.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was on my way to an after party at my formal. I was slightly drunk and snap chatting him. We started sexting a little bit, and I decided that I wanted to get laid. He said that his roommates were home so he booked us a suite at a nice hotel and he picked me up. We did not know exactly what we were gonna do, but as soon as we got in the room you could feel the sexual tension. We talked for a few minutes and I realized that my phone has died, neither of us had a charger and I knew that my friends were going to try to text me. We started making out and it was getting heated, but I quickly stopped him because I needed to charge my phone. He decided to run and get one. I thought he was going to his car to get one, but he actually went to the convenient store down the street and bought me one.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When he got back, I was super surprised that he bought me a charger. As I plugged my phone in he sat on the couch and I could tell that he was checking me out. As soon as I knew my phone was charging, I walked over to him, straddled him and we started kissing again. His hands were all over my ass and they soon moved to my breasts. He quickly slid my dress off and my bra came off quickly after that. We were making out and he started sucking on my nipples. It felt so good, as I hadn’t had a real hookup in months. He then picked me and carried me to the bed. This made me slightly uncomfortable because I am very self conscious about my weight and I didn’t want him to struggle. But, he got me to the bed. He slowly made his way down to my waist and began to eat me out. That was the first time a guy had done that, so I couldn’t tell if he was doing it right. It felt good, but I think I should’ve told him what to do, so it felt really good for me. After about 5 minutes, he started kissing me again and he started to fuck me. We fucked missionary for about 5 minutes until he came. I was kind of hoping that he would change positions. Anyway, after that, we talked and started making out again. I went down on him, and I could feel him getting hard in my mouth again. I love blowing guys because I have so much control. I did not go as hard as I normally do because I wanted him to last. I moved my way back up to him and we started kissing again. I told him that I had never ridden before and he told me that he would teach me. So, I straddled him and began grinding. Finally, I grabbed his dick and put it inside me. It felt so good, I tried to do what felt good, but since it was still a little foreign, it felt a little weird. We finally got a rhythm, and he pulled me close to him. He then flipped me over and started fucking me even harder. I was starting to moan really loud, he was literally hitting my g-spot. My arms were wrapped around him and he was holding me so tight. I could feel myself about to cum and I told him to go faster. He started pumping harder and deeper and we were both very close. I could feel myself going over the edge and his breathing got so heavy and his head was burrowed into my chest. He took a final pump and we came together.
After we cleaned up, he decided to get in the shower and I laid on the bed. After he got out, we kissed and talked a little. He mentioned that I could sleep in the hotel, but he had to get up early. I decided to have him drive me home. We kissed again before I got out and he promised to buy me dinner sometime.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day, I felt good. I was glad that I finally hooked up with him. I was also feeling satisfied because I had been horny for so long. I thought that I would be more emotionally attached to him, but I wasn’t. I still do not have any emotional attachment to him, but I would gladly fuck him again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Two of my friends, who had my location to know I was safe, that night. The next day, I told one of my best friends because I had been texting her the night before.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That I finally got fucked.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish I was more comfortable with my body. Also, I have always dreamed of a guy eating me out till I come and I thought that he would.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I used to be against it because I thought I couldn’t do sex without emotion, but now I am all for it.
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