What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los Angeles, California
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Fitness Instructor
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Sexually into women, dating men
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 21
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks back
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was blonde, 23, fit-athletic, tall, long legs, gorgeous 34b cups. One of the girls on the cheer team. A bicurious, with a fantasy she wanted to fulfill. We had talked before, and part of her fantasy was for another woman to go down on her in the locker room after hours.
So we planned it out and I was to take her in the evening after cheer practice.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began in the showers, around 6.40pm. She was alone, naked and I walked in, entered her shower. I instigated it with a kiss on her lips and her against the wall.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I kissed her, moved down to her boobs and pussy. Finger fucked her pussy until she came. We changed to the locker room, she laid on the bench and I lay on top of her, we kissed for as long as I could remember. I took out a strapon from my bag and straddled her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We headed out for dinner after that. Ended the night bringing her back to my place before fucking her again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Power / Dominance, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Shared it with my lesbian roommate. We planned to invite my student over for a threesome one day.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was the first woman that I had ever gotten with at the school itself. One of the very first white girls. Young. I had a good time.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Sessions were too short. She was new to the scene.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing
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