by Sgt P.
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Murica
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Military
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Love my spouse
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6yrs
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a white lady, thick, and curvaceous! Nice big boobs, and a really plump butt! We met online, as I was in a world wind with my marriage as I was in the military and life was tough! The lady was like 15yrs my senior, and was really sexy, and sensual, I thought she was very down to earth, and had a great personality!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met online, and exchanged contact info, we were both skeptical about it all at first, as I was married, and she wasn’t. But, we finally agreed and arranged to meet up and have sex! She said she really wanted me inside her after seeing how big I was on a pic!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first time we had sex it was electric! She did things to me I never thought existed, nor were possible. She rode me so good, I thought I was going to explode through the roof! She also swallowed a few times, which I never had happen before, it was really good! We also would talk and really get to know one another then go at it again a few times after.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She was really an amazing woman, and person whom I started to gain feeling for. But, then one day she said she was talking to her ex again, a few weeks later found out she was married! I didn’t expect much to come from this affair, just to gain fulfillment that I didn’t have in my marriage at the time (which has already ended, due to other issues). I still think she was a great person, and she knows how to treat a man!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more desirable, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Because I stepped out on my marriage, and possibly could have fucked my whole family over! And I was being a lying, cheating sack of shit, and I wasn’t being a faithful husband!
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It brought me happiness, as my marriage was falling apart at an alarming rate!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was cheating on my wife at the time!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Do it when you’re single, as much as you can before you get married!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Helped me stay sane!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Nice place to vent!
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