More Than Kissing Cousins



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States Midwest
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Surgeon
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

More Than Kissing Cousins

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Autumn is nine years younger than me. She is married with blue eyes, blonde hair, and is of Danish ancestry, very Scandinavian in her looks. Autumn is married, has two living children and a third who died at age three of cancer about eight years ago. I have known Autumn all her life as she is my first cousin, though I don’t see her often.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was in Chicago for a conference for a week and took some time off to visit my mother’s family in Minnesota. Autumn lives there outside of Minneapolis and her house was where our mini-family reunion happened. I visited with my two aunts, my four cousins, their spouses, and kids for a couple of days. Eventually, everyone kind of went their different ways and I had some time to kill. I had planned to visit a great aunt and to visit the family cemetery in a small town in south-central Minnesota. I also wanted to check out the hospital at the University of Minnesota. So I had my time pretty much booked.

On the morning of the fourth day at my hotel, someone was knocking at the door. I opened it and there was Autumn so, I invited her in. She sat in a chair with me opposite her. I could tell she was nervous and I told her I had enjoyed visiting with her and her family and was glad she had housed the reunion at her home. She thanked me and leaned forward to kiss me. Instantly I was hard and Autumn smiled and said, “I’ve wanted to know what it was like to make out with you for a long time.”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kept making out for about five minutes until she stood and raised me up to meet her and we embraced. I could see through her light weight shirt that her nipples were hard and she could now feel my hard dick rubbing on her. “Fuck me”, she said smiling and leading me to the bed. There with no hesitation from either of us as we undressed each other, playfully, teasing and touching eachother cause further excitement.

I rubbed my penis on her vaginal area, and could feel her wetness as I came close to her opening. I sucked her breasts which made her moan and fingered her slowly. I parted her legs, and put myself on my knees in front of her as she grabbed my penis and guided it inside of her vagina.

I entered her easily, she was soaking wet and I slowly drove my dick all the way up her vagina and then slowly back out leaving only the head inside of her. I did that for a bit and got her really turned on before I started to quicken the pace.

For ten minutes we made love to each other varying our intensity and our pace, going fast and hard, then slow and steady. I ended up withdrawing and laying by her side. Autumn kissed me and then snuggled into me and we began fucking by spooning. I kissed her cheek and her neck, everywhere I could on her face as I held her tight, squeezing and fondling her breasts. Faster I thrust into her and faster she matched the pace. Our bodies became one and for fifteen minutes we sped up, slowed down, sped up and then Autumn said “Cum in me, cum in me please!”

I watched as Autumn’s body responded to me as her chest and neck flushed red. She began to moan and took control of our love making. Eventually, she screamed loudly as her orgasms flooded her body. I ejaculated deep in her, thrusting my penis deeper and deeper into her each time.

She moved positions and had me get on top of her, inserted my semi hard dick back inside her. We made love for forty minutes until she erupted into multiple orgasms. I ejaculated in her multiple times again. Autumn told me she had an arrangement with the kids and Mark, her husband, that she was busy during the day and evening for the next three days for work so we could continue to have sex.

This is suppose to be forbidden, but damn, she is beautiful and sexy and I didn’t care about the cousin stuff. We weren’t leaving our families, we both just need side attractions. We agreed that whenever I came to town I would book extra time so we could enjoy each other. We loved spooning and the closeness it brought with the sex.

Autumn also wanted to try anal sex so I did use a condom for that but it turned her on and she had an orgasm doing that and immediately afterwards, I removed the condom and she got on all fours and I made love to her from behind, which she really enjoyed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Autumn has called me once a week since we hooked up. Sometimes we discuss what we each enjoy about making love as cousins together, we’ve discussed our similar sex drives and how long we will be apart. Autumn is telling her husband she has to go out of town for work.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Submission / Relinquishing power, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, Attracted to my cousin

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, just Autumn.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was incredible. For the first time in my life I felt I had a partner with a sexual appetite to match my own.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I guess that Autumn is my first cousin.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It changed a taboo about making love to my cousin. I have never cheated on my wife until this time but I have no regrets. My wife at 50 has a low sex drive and I am lucky to get it twice a year. So I don’t think that is a bad thing

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Before marriage, I had 7 partners, 3 casual one or weekend stances and 4 were long term sexual and personal relationships. This was casual sex, with emotion but not the kind to lead to divorce or marriage. In our case we are making love to vent our sexual frustration and find fulfillment with a partner that is safe, that we care about and desire.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Brings some good things to light.

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