What’s your gender? Woman
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
My Ford Taurus
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We worked together. The first day we met, he invited me to come drink with him at a local park, where we wound up fucking. We mainly just hung out and fucked in my car. I was indifferent about it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The poor bastard was clinically paranoid, and if I was ever five minutes late to meet up with him, I’d look down and see 20 missed calls, along with nasty, disparaging voicemails asking me where the fuck I was, that I must be out with someone else, that I was a “whore,” etc. But the sex was awesome, so I just rolled with it. We were not in any kind of relationship, so when it became too much to take, I just stopped answering his persistent calls. I finally get a voicemail saying that I had deserved to be raped (we did coke together one day and I confessed this to him), because I go around acting like a whore, or… whatever. You know, the usual rape-y reasons. So I snapped, and drove over to meet up with him. We were spitting fire at each other. When I saw he was about to have a fucking panic attack, it hit me in the feels a little bit, so I tried to defuse the whole thing. Then he starts crying and pleading with me, wondering why I don’t want to be with him. My anger over what he had said earlier started to bubble up again when I saw him like that, so then…
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? …as I’m comforting him and he’s bawling and shaking, I start kissing his neck and running my hands under his shirt. Between sobs, he pleads with me, “J, please, stop, you’re arousing me.” He quickly gives in, grabs me tight, and we practically start eating each others’ mouths. We hop into the passenger seat of my car. I sit down and he instantaneously starts giving me head the way you would give head if you were told that your life and the fate of the world depended on it. In two seconds, I feel like I’m going to come, and we pull some kind of synchronized swimming maneuver so that he winds up fucking me from behind. I start furiously rubbing my clitoris and immediately start coming so hard that I’m screaming and am on the verge of blacking out. The next part is fuzzy, but I kind of push him off of me and somehow wind up in the driver’s seat. He asks me if this means that we’ll be together, and I take immense pleasure in staying dead silent.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I drove him home. I never took another one of his calls ever again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Power / Dominance, Revenge / Getting even
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? See above story
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative
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