What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? Years Ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Greg was a colleague at work. He was 10 years older than me and was single. I was married to the wrong man and desperate to get out of my marriage. I told my husband (who was only the second man I had ever slept with) that I wanted to have an affair, thinking he would end the marriage, but instead, he told me to get it out of my system. I chose Greg mainly for his proximity and availability. He was okay looking, was tall and slender, and was a very neat, smart, casual kind of guy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I told Greg one day over lunch that I wanted to have an affair. I didn’t specifically say with him, but it was implied I guess. A few days later, everyone else in the office was out. Greg came over to my desk and brought up the topic. It didn’t take long before we started kissing.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was sitting on a swivel chair, and he was standing. As we kissed, I rubbed his cock through his pants, and then, he unzipped and I took him in my mouth. He was probably a bit smaller than average, certainly smaller than my previous two lovers. He fit nicely in my mouth without making me gag at all. After a bit, I stood up and pulled down my panties and hiked up my skirt. He sat on the chair, and I straddled him. I was on the pill, so I was not worried about pregnancy. I rode him to a very nice orgasm. We were in a hurry in case people came back. After I came, I didn’t want him to cum inside me in case of STDs, but I had heard oral was a low risk, so decided I would let him finish in my mouth. We swapped positions again, me sitting, him standing, and I sucked him until he came in my mouth. We heard people coming back before he finished, and it was all a bit crazy with him cumming as we heard people coming into the outer office. He rushed back to his desk, and I grabbed my panties from the floor and shoved them in the drawer of my desk. My chest was still heaving, and I was blushing furiously as the woman who sat next to me came and sat down. She asked if I was okay, and all I could do was nod and pretend I was concentrating on work when really my mind was focused on the taste of his cum in my mouth.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had illicit sex heaps more times after that: in the office, in his car in the car park, at his apartment, etc. I left my husband about a month later and broke it off with Greg a bit after that. I was always absolutely clear with Greg that I was not looking for a relationship with him and that I was just using him for sex, but he still clung on when I ended it and it got a little messy. It didn’t help that my husband confronted him at work one day and punched him. I don’t really have any regrets though; albeit got me out of my marriage
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Escape from marriage to the wrong man
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My husband and he reacted badly as he punched Greg. Also my sister, but she was very supportive
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? My orgasm and it got me out of my marriage.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It led to Greg being punched.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I realized I could enjoy casual sex/sex for its own sake.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Lots of fake stories here.
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