Once in a Foreign Far Away Country

by Traveller

Gender: Male
Current location: on the road
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Scientist
Relationship status: faithful and respectful to myself, open in relationships
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? unknown
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? The first part of this one

Once in a foreign far away country

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Well, first she didn’t notice me as I was dancing near her, so I just started talking to her and invited her to a drink. She accepted, but since the very first moment she appeared as though she didn’t mind having me around. I mean, she never answered me and did not make it look like it could be a hook up, but she was just being polite.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I wanted to hook up of course, I was at the city for less than a week and didn’t have time to lose at all. I was staying at a hotel as any other tourist would, but actually I was there working and couldn’t do things as if I was a real tourist. So my plan was only the most simple and basic: hook up, go to my hotel, getting the best out of it, and then a quick dispatch leaving me time to get to my job within the schedule.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kept talking and dancing and moving and it didn’t really last long. The place was closing and she just told me she was going to another club to look for some friends. I asked her if could go with her and she said it was ok. So we went out to the club and I must say I really was very surprised about the people and places she got me to know in the little time I was with her. I didn’t know yet if this would be a hook up or not, but anyways it was so much fun and she noticed it, though she was not a loud reaction girl about it. So the party ended, we walked out, and she told me she was leaving and I told her I wanted to sleep with her. She laughed, not too loud. Then I told her my plan, and we both got in a cab, but even there she wouldn’t allow me to pass my arm around her, not a kiss either, she just waited for the right place and moment. We got to my hotel, I payed for a different room than mine just to be with her. We got into the room and all the way there we were just chatting. Even once inside, she kept behaving as the most real, respectful and humble lady I’ve ever met. As she finished telling me a story about her I took off her earrings being very calm and tender, then I approached the same way to kiss her. This time she finally let me do this and once that happened, she took command of the rest. She did everything that she wanted to me, she drew me as she desired, she just let me touch her only as she wished to, and all she wished was to get me to the most pleasurable state she could! And she really got that accomplished for both of us.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? More than a couple each one. Yes indeed, I’m still amazed at how incredible her woman ways were and I also still considered her as the best woman experience in my life!!!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None! No pills, nor condoms nor nothing than coming out of her many times and sucking for cleaning ’til we started once and again… We did talk about multiple sexual partners we have had and there seemed to be confidence in each other about being healthy. We knew this could be risky anyway, but never asked each other for any paper proof of it.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Well what a better reason than: “Because I’m alive in this exciting world and full in desire!” Nature cannot be denied… And this is my best proof I took out of it!

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol barely, Just a couple drinks. Never really got even a little bit high!

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I haven’t mentioned that the hotel episode only lasted 2 hours, because I had to go to work and she had to get back home. After we fucked like animals after the last round, I fell asleep in her arms… and the phone rings! The alarm I set up went off and I was about to jump out of bed and there she was, sitting down in front of the bed already showered, dressed, purse ready in her lap. She was a great woman, serious looking, just looking at me, waiting for me…GOSH… I’ m still amazed!!!! We went out of the room and hotel together. At the street entrance we kissed still full in desire and she told me she wanted to see me once more before I had to leave, and I accepted. So that happened on the last night I spent there. It was again: FABULOUS!

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Many people, and most of them would desire to have something alike, but many considered this a very remote possibility.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Both wanted it, now I know!

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: getting to know that woman, thanks to listening to my instinct I believe! Worst..? Nothing, I wouldn’t change a thing! This just enriches my experience about sexuality and who I am. Nothing changes, that is why I prefer to live open.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I’ll do it again and no one in my life isn’t aware of this. That’s how I am: faithful and respectful to myself, this being what allows me to be the same to others.

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