What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Alberta, Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Environmental Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10-15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Out Of Town Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We matched on a dating app while I was working away from home, in her town. We chatted for a week or so and formed a connection that turned from friendly to flirty. She looked cute from her pictures, and seemed to be of average height and build. She was blonde with large breasts (D’s). We decided to meet up and play mini golf before anything physical happened. We put a bet on the mini golf. Every stroke the person lost by was a piece of clothing they had to take off when we got back to her place.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I picked her up from her place to go for mini golf. She was wearing a nice, tight black shirt showing off her cleavage. She seemed nervous, but we hit it off, joking around and laughing. I won quite handedly at mini golf to the point where she’d be losing all her clothes once we got back. I could tell she was still nervous and I didn’t want to push her. So we went for a walk around her neighborhood, getting to know each other better. We got back to her place and chatted for a bit on her bed until she said, “I think I have a debt to pay up”.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She got off the bed and stood in front of me, pausing before she took off her shirt and bra. As I was sitting on the edge of the bed, she moved onto me, straddling me. We kissed for the first time, which became more passionate and harder. I squeezed her ass as I stood her up to slide off her jeans. I turned her around and laid her down on the bed. As she laid there, stark naked, I undressed in front of her. I pounced on her and we began making out again. Her hand found my hard cock and mine her wet pussy. As she stroked my cock, I gently teased her clit until she told me to fuck her. So I spread her legs and slowly entered her as she moaned. We were so horny, we didn’t waste time and just started fucking hard. Her breasts were bouncing with every thrust. She was moaning my name whenever she could catch her breath. I started to suck on her nipples and it got her going even more. She told me to bite them, and I did. That put her over the top, as her body convulsed and she had an orgasm. I turned her around and fuck her doggy until I came. We collapsed, exhausted and sweaty, cuddling until we fell asleep.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hooked up a couple more times that week, but she called it off as she was catching feelings and knew this couldn’t turn into anything more as I don’t live around here.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. It’s not something I’ve really done a lot of, and I’m not much of a sharer either.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I don’t know anybody where I’m currently working, and it was nice to have someone to connect with.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it only lasted a week.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It’s hard to keep things as just sex for me, as I like to build a connection. That’s an issue when I just want something casual.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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