What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Skopje
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Copywriter
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50-60
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2


How long ago did this hookup happen? Thursday evening

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Petite, lovely, B cup, slim, dirty blonde, with the most sensual lips. Late thirties, Interior designer. Divorced. She looked gorgeous with a nice cocktail dress and high hills, dark red lipstick.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was at the opening party at a local hotel. I arrived around 11, it was pretty crowded, looking for some friends, when I noticed her, she was with some friends. I’d known her for few years. At first, I couldn’t recall her name. Anyway, we have eye contact, smiled at each other, I approached her for a hug. She introduced me to her friend. I complimented her on her looks. She was little bit drunk. We continued hugging. I kissed her neck and she didn’t react. After couple of minutes, I used the opportunity to kiss her again. She said not here. She told me to go in the front of the lobby and wait for her. I went inside the hotel. I saw her entering into the elevator. After few seconds, I received a message from her to come there in ladies room on second floor. Instantly, I turned hard and got aroused.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went there, it was quiet there. When she saw me, she snuck into a stall and I followed in. Immediately we started kissing, she lifted her dress and fell on her naked ass as she took off her panties. I was hard as a rock, she unzipped me, my cock popped out like a spring. She whispered that she wants to fuck backward, and turned around. I slid my cock into her wet pussy and started pumping her, first slowly than faster and faster. I was massaging her clothes with one hand and holding her breast with the other. I was on the edge to orgasm and asked her if I could finish inside her. She said yes, don’t worry. In that moment, I trusted her deep and finish inside her, and continue to pump her, I felt her shaking and squeezing my cock inside her. I took out my cock and cleaned it and her, but she continue leaking, she put pad on her panties and dress. First she left. I joined her at the party, spoke a little, escorted her to her car, kissed her for good night and left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Bareback, hope not to face some surprise in close future

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex in hotel restroom

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Bareback

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She is most sexual person I know and was happy to hook up. Hope for another.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is very important

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great project

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!