Rekindled My Lust


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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Whitewater
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Home marker
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Polydiestic and unique
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? On a journey of discovery
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 24
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Rekindled my lust

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was thin, cute, long brown hair, as tall as me, had the neatest scar on her stomach from a childhood incident. She says my ex’s little sister and we were close friends for about as long as I and my ex were together. We were both taken when we started talking and I honestly was her as a sibling until we hooked up

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? About a week before hand we had gone to see a movie together (both still taken at the time) and just hang out for a while nothing much happened. Later that week I left her, she had been sleeping with someone else at collage and we already weren’t a stable couple so it was done. When I messaged her to tell her she was breaking down because her boy friend had just left her. After consoling her over her loss I told her I was single too and made a joke about how we should pick each other’s significant other from now on and she joked back that we could just date each other instead. The next day she admitted she was serious and had been crushing on me for years and that our movie outing pushed her to jump on the chance.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first time, she had come over to visit and her ride back to town flaked out on her so she had to spend the night. I played with her breasts (first guy that didn’t make them hurt) and fingered her. We fucked and she could barely keep from waking up the house. She was so tight that she left a bruise around my member. Over the next week or two at met another two times. I taught her how to 69, she gave me the first blowjob that I enjoyed. She came easily, small, adorably quivering orgasms. She has the stamina of an Olympic athlete though and would keep going until she went limp

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? For the two weeks or so that it went on it was amazing I couldn’t wait to have her around again,not just for the amazing sex but because she wasn’t clingy about it. We had sex, it was good, nor what’s on TV. That’s how she was.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? The only person I’ve told of this is my oldest friend.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Her and I were really close before this happened and it got kind of awkward afterwards. It ended for the better but we don’t talk like we used to.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We had playfully flirted since we met, she had crushed on me for years and I’ve always wondered about her. Getting the chance for both of us to fill that fantasy was worth it. That and the fact that I could just pick her up and bounce her.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Bluntly, it ruined our platonic relationship.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Both of us are in happy committed relationships that neither of us were going to pursue if it hadn’t been for us taking this chance. I only saw my ex in women before her and she fixed that.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’ve never understood why guys like seeing a girl with cum all over her face until we were cleaning up from her first was really adorable and so arousing that we ended up fucking again.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? My relationship is open, I encourage my girlfriend to pursue other men because it keeps me on my toes. I hate the idea of someone else fucking her and I make damn sure she’s too satisfied to consider other guys. Honestly, more relationships would survive if people saw it as the challenge that I do.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? So far, I love it.

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