What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? None
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Wondering
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Many
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was about 6’2”, African American, average body.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were in my apartment, doing a group project for school which we finished sooner than expected. So we started talking about other stuff.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I kept asking sex questions out of curiosity, all he would suggest was, “only one way to find out”. I made an excuse to go to the restroom for a bit to text a friend about the situation, but she was half asleep so I didn’t get much out of her. So I thought, “fuck it,” and came out only in small shirt and underwear. Standing in front of the bed I felt him dry humping me with that massive cock while he was kissing on my neck and tickling my nipples. Eventually, I found myself turning around suddenly and kissing him, we made out for a while as we fell in bed and I wrapped my legs around him. I tried to sit on his cock, going slow taking that huge head when he suddenly grabbed my hips and pulled me all the way down balls deep. I felt my eyes roll back, my back arch and my body rocking left and right with every thrust. It hurt at first but eventually, it started feeling good. I felt a warm sensation building up and I focused on that so he kept thrusting. Before I could cum, he pushed me off, lay me flat on my stomach and started fucking me just as hard while whispering stuff in my ears. He eventually pulled out, jerked my face up and blew his load all over my face and chest. I was just laying there covered in cum with his dick resting on my groin area, after a while, he went to get dressed and just said: “you’re welcome”.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got ready and left for school, ended up having sex again in the restroom and then in the elevator, and we went to my place again and fucked all night long.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Female friend.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was my first time, and it was fun.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He pulled me balls deep without me being prepared so it hurt for a little.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We did it a lot more but had to call it quits when he left town.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing really
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool
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