What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London, UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Architect
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Sex With Slender Moroccan Student, Part 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met a 21-year old Morrocan architect in London a few months ago. She was slender, flat chested, and had a very beautiful face. She wore a headscarf and prays 5 times a day: a practicing Muslim. We met a few times at museums and kept up a text-based relationship about art that became more personal and intimate. I discussed my sexual attraction to her and she was silent but agreed to visit me again in London where she has cousins. I felt it was likely that she wanted to have a sexual interaction but was very shy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I read up on sexual practices of educated Moroccan females: they rarely wait until marriage, but sex is still taboo. They often prepare non-vaginal intercourse: riming, oral, and even anal — to preserve the vaginal penetration for marriage. I mentioned to her that I had read these studies, and that “sex” didn’t necessarily mean penis-vagina — i.e., that I wanted to have intimacy with her in a way that felt good to her and that I expected nothing. I had more experience and took charge. Once she flew into London for a week’s visit, we arranged a visit to a museum and to have tea at my flat. My roommates were out at 3pm when we arrived. She had nothing to drink and was willing.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I told her how much I yearned for her. How attractive she was. I asked her if I could kiss her: she giggled and didn’t respond. I grabbed her back firmly, drew her close on a sofa, and started to kiss her lips.
This turned into a French kiss and I started to caress her in an embrace: I took things very slowly. She was very passionate and I was gentle. To relax her, I said, “For our first time, let’s not have vaginal sex –and reduce the stress to you. I respect your virginity. Let’s have intimacy.” And so I began to touch her breasts — very small with nipples erect through the sweater. At this point, we moved to my little bedroom: a single bed. I laid her down and took off her sweater and bra — pressing my bare chest against hers. We continued like this for fifteen minutes and I could smell her wet pussy. I slid my hand inter her panties — gently grabbed her pubic mound and started to finger her vaginal lips. She started to pant and gently moan. I removed her panties and instructed her to relax: I positioned my self to eat her out. I watched a few videos to prepare, and took it nice and slow — I brought her to a powerful orgasm after about ten minutes. Her writhing was so amazing and the release was her first at the hand of a man.
I then positioned her in a spooning position — and did something Morraccan youth do — I had her press her thighs together, and then “flossing” her vulva with my erect penis — about 7″ uncut. This was very erotic and I used a bit of lube. She was just taking it all in, delighted and shocked a bit. I came hard after about 5 minutes — spraying semen all over the sheets — about 7 squirts! Towards the end, she was holding my penis in her hands — me guiding her. It was very pleasing. I then rested for about 10 minutes in bed — with her against me — and then did more vigorous oral on her that included two fingers rapidly inside while licking her clit — she came again!
We then took a shower — she tried to blow me — kissing my cock’s head and taking her tongue to trace the foreskin when I was rolled partly down — I explained how the foreskin retracted. She didn’t make me cum a 2nd time and I didn’t want to push that far this first time — we washed up and she went to her cousins’ in East London all refreshed. They never suspected anything as she arrived before dinner.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had sex each afternoon thereafter on her six days in London — I eventually penetrated her vaginally and anally.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal, Condoms, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more desirable, Power / Dominance, Making new friends, Everyone else was/is doing it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends — they were non-judgemental and supportive.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I was thrilled to offer myself sexually to this virgin and give her a loving experience.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We had to deceive her cousins’ and have our sex in the afternoons even though she is an adult.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Islamic women are full of passion — I had no idea. She was an amazing lover.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex can be a great experience and it was for us.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I learn by reading real stories.
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