What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1 up till two years ago, plus another 8 since
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Sexing brit chicks, part 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I saw her at a party. She looked very sexy in her dress and heels. She looked a couple years older than me. I wanted to meet her, but couldn’t find a chance. So I circulated around the room with other people. It got late and I was leaving. Then I saw her sitting outside, sexy legs crossed, having a cigarette. I asked her if I could bum a smoke off her. She offered me a cigarette. Then I had to ask her for a light. She looked annoyed, but lit my cigarette. I started coughing while trying to take a drag. She looked at me and must have thought I was a dweeb. I told her I don’t smoke. She asked why I asked a cigarette from her. I said because she was so attractive, and I saw her sitting there alone, so I wanted to keep her company. She laughed and lightened up. We started talking, then went back inside for another drink. As the party shut down I walked her home.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At her place, I asked if I could come up to use the washroom. She said okay. After I cleaned up in her washroom, as I was about to leave, I grabbed her and started kissing her. She went along with it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We quickly moved to her bedroom. We spent some time on foreplay, then I asked her what was her favorite position. She said doggy style. So I entered her from behind and started pounding into her. I loved her loud moans. She let out some screams, and that brought me over the edge. We rested a bit and then went at it again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I slept over, but we didn’t have sex again the next day. I just walked home. It was funny, as the guy doing the “walk of shame.” I texted her that I had a great time, and she replied in kind. We had a fling for a few months, but then she dumped me, because she was looking for an older, established guy. I wasn’t too upset. I got some good sex out of it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex, of course.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was a smoker. Kissing a smoker was not pleasant.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Each hookup increases my experience and self confidence.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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