What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Transportation
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 33
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
She Wanted More
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A was about the same age as me, lived with her parents, was pretty and probably what you’d class as quite overweight. I was at a phase in my life where I was just trying to accumulate numbers – or being a slut!! We’d matched on Tinder and met for a drink near her town and kissed that night and agreed to meet again, which we did and then hooked up. This meeting was probably our third or forth encounter.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Her parents were away. I lived about one hours drive from where I worked and she lived about half way between the two points, so it was arranged that I’d stop in on the way home from work.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I got there, we made small talk before heading up to her room, started kissing her as she made her trademark whimpers and then working my mouth south as we undressed, paying attention to her neck and boobs as I went before focussing on her pussy. I’m not sure whether she’d been licked out much in the past because when I did it she went crazy and came LOADS, she was seriously noisy and screamed a lot especially when I didn’t stop after she came and built her up again – she’d say things like “who are you and how do you do that so well?”, which was great for my ego. After she’d cum three times I kissed my way up her body and entered her missionary, slow at first before increasing my pace until I was really pounding the hell out of her. It took me a little while to build up my orgasm and then I emptied my balls deep into her soaking pussy.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got up, got dressed and said I needed to head home. She lay there panting on her back, legs still wide open with my cum dripping out of her. She commented on how naughty it was of me to just turn up, fuck her and then leave again. Later it turned out she wanted more, but I’d made it clear earlier I just wanted fun, so that was the last time we met.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Maybe a couple of friends, no real reactions.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The ego boost from her enjoying my oral work and cumming inside her again.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Possibly hurting her.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I went on to the next few hookups!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s amazing provided people are open about their expectations and play sensibly/safely!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great site with interesting reads!
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