Slow Builder



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NYC
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Self-employed
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Slow builder

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Hannah through happenstance. She lived in a town not too far from me. It was funny as the dating scene was very poor in the town I lived in. We by chance met each other while she was between schools. She was very cool, a talented musician, with short, long curly brown hair and soft olive skin. She had a lust for life and energy that was fun. She was also the youngest girl I had dated at the time (right around 18).

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had had a date before. It wasn’t intentional. We had met under other pretenses, but we knew it was turning into a date while we were talking. We kissed each other when we left and I was called by her a couple days later and she was curious what my status was. We agreed to meet up again near where she lived and had a great meal and went to a coffee shop and eventually started making out. It was interesting as she didn’t want to go all the way at that point. But we figured it was a good idea to fool around anyway and headed back to her house

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to her quiet suburban house. Her parents were gone on a trip, so we had the whole place to ourselves. It was interesting seeing her in the state just before adulthood. We played on her piano for a bit and started making out in the living room. I played with her nipples, which were very sensitive and laid her down onto the floor to take her short skirt off. She was wearing a black thong which I turned lightly to the side, and began eating her pussy. She was completely clean shaven and had an incredible smell from her pussy. I began to finger her and noticed her labia was very thick and deep, along with having a very tiny clit that was no bigger than a BB, but was incredibly sensitive. I then took off her thong and rolled her up to lick her ass briefly.

She came soon after I went to down on her and fingered her. She then pulled my pants down and starting sucking my cock. She had great form and cupped my balls with her free hand. She also licked my ass a bit afer sucking on my balls for a while. It really felt incredible. I soon came in her mouth and she swallowed. We cuddled for a bit and then went into her bed room. I loved seeing her lay naked on the bed and was turned on by the comfort she had with her body. We cointinued to make out, finger and lick each other for the next couple of hours. The highlight of this was a 69 with me on top and the incredible sensation of her deep throat my cock all the way down to my balls and holding it. I’ve never felt anything quite like that since. Around 4AM we finally went to sleep closely cuddling and woke up the next morning in a nice blissful state.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great. She had to teach a swimming course, so we didn’t have too much time to spend for breakfast and I had to head back and get my day going. We continued talking for a while. It was odd because we were both in the state of moving to other parts of the country and while I did want to see where it went, I also wanted to continue sexually, which we did on a couple of future dates. We eventually moved on and never really got a relationship going. I though of her as the one that got away for a long time, but when I think of where I am now and who she is, we probably would have broke up at some point. We’re still casually friends and talk once a year or so, but actually re-kindling a friendship is probably not possible as I am engaged and probably tensions between us might come back.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one on my end. We talked and I think she told her mom she was seeing someone, but it was nothing serious to warrant a meet the parents kind of thing.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was lovely and a person who I needed at that time in my life. I loved her energy and she was absolutely wonderful in bed. Still the best pussy I have ever tasted and played with.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. Wished we had had anal sex eventually, but we didn’t get that far.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? About the same.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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