“Studying Abroad”

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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? Peru
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 19
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

“Studying Abroad”

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was attending high school in America as apart of an exchange program. The men at this school were extremely attractive. In the year I was there I jumped between many guys. One stands out to me because I did something that was quite uncharacteristic of myself. This guy, B, reached out to me on social media and suggested we meet up at the football game (very classic, I know) that week. I went with some friends and was excited to meet up with him because I’d really never talked to him before in real life. The extent of our relationship at that point was purely flirty messages online. He was tall, blonde, very muscular, very sexy. All the girls loved him at that school.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When I arrived at the game, I saw him immediately. Of course, I didn’t go up to him. I waited for him to approach me. We both were with large groups of friends. He came over to me after about 10 mins of eyeing me. He gently came up behind me and grabbed my arm. He said “Want to go somewhere else for a bit”. And of course I nodded yes. He led me into the school and into one of the classrooms. During football games, usually only part of the school was unlocked, but that night one of the hallways was open. We snuck in and shut the hall doors behind us. And went into the classroom. It was a classroom I’d never been in before. We kept the lights off when we were in there that way no one could tell.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we entered the classroom, we started kissing. We didn’t waste much time. He started kissing my neck and I undid his pants. Since we were afraid of getting caught, we had to be quick. He slid off my thong and left my mini skirt on. He leaned me up against a desk and thrust into me. I fingered my clit as he banged me. He flipped me over onto my back and kept pounding me. I made myself cum and then he shot himself onto my tits. After, we quickly cleaned me off and left the classroom.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The only thing I felt bad about was how we left the classroom. We ended up spending the rest of the football game together and went on a few dates. Obviously I thought it wouldn’t work because I was leaving soon to go back home. When I left America, we kept in contact. When I went back a year and a half ago we actually hooked up again. But now we both are in relationships/engaged.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My American friends. They were very enthusiastic about the hookup.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Breaking the rules

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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