The American Dream



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Australia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Lawyer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The American Dream

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was on vacation in the US from Australia and was staying with family in Salt Lake City, UT. After a few swipes left I came across a sweet face and a witty tag line. Naturally, I swiped right. After days of flirty messages, we decided to meet. She picked me up in her BMW and showed me the midnight sights, ending up at a lookout overlooking the city lights. There was an instant connection and the chemistry was insatiable. We were talking and I leaned over to kiss her, and I couldn’t help but want more. She said she wasn’t that kind of girl…but deep down I think she was conflicted. After about an hour she dropped me off and we promised to message while I traveled for the next couple of weeks.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After hundreds of more flirty messages, I came back to SLC for a couple of days before flying back to Australia. We decided to meet again because I wanted to see the “architecture” of her house. She knew what was up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got in the door and she said to be quiet because her housemates were asleep. We crept up to her room and took a seat on the bed, our eyes met and we started kissing passionately. I was rock hard and started to undress her, but then she pushed me away and went to the en-suite, after a couple of minutes I followed, grabbed her from behind kissing the back of her neck, and then threw her on the bed. We started undressing each other, I nibbled her nipples, and then she sucked me hard and fast. I warned her that I was going to cum but she just sped up swallowing like a champ and blowing my mind. I then pinned her down and started fucking her hard and fast missionary with her grabbing my back wanting it harder and faster. I stopped intermittently stopped to go down on her until she came. After a 15 min break of cuddling, we kissed, touched, and came again and again. I blew a total of 5 loads in 3 hours.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled for a bit, then she dropped me home. She made me promise to message her, and I made her promise to visit me in Australia. I, unfortunately, caught some feelings, and I think she might have too. I messaged her every so often, but there weren’t too many responses.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The chemistry I had with her.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That Australia isn’t the 51st state.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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