The Neighbor



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineering
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The neighbor

How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? After our wedding, we moved into a new housing community. Most of the couples were in the similar age range, so we became active hanging out with a bunch of our neighbors. Alice lived right next door to us with her husband. Ironically, she had that typical girl next door beauty. She was about 5’7, shoulder length dark black hair, hazel eyes, beautiful smile, average body, nice ass and shapely legs. When we’re first moved in, she was so busy working and caring for a newborn, I didn’t really get to know her too well. But as her daughter got older, her and her husband began hosting more parties. She was very reserved, not very out going like some of the women. She became friendly with my wife and me. I never thought of her as a potential affair partner.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? That all changed in 2006. I spent 5 months helping my neighbor finish his basement and remodeling his kitchen. He was very spontaneous and would change the design often, costing him money. Alice and I began to get so frustrated with him. I kept helping him since I knew I could semi keep him on track. I bonded with Alice and we became closer.

After the construction was done in June, they hosted a party. There was plenty of drinking and flirting going on. My wife went home to put our daughter to bed and fell asleep herself. Alice was avoiding being any where close to her husband. The party moved to the basement for drinks by the new bar and karaoke. Alice did not move from the bench she was sitting on. I moved over to the bench and began talking with her and the other couple that was there. The couple left saying that they needed to get sex. We all laughed. After they left, Alice looked at me and said that neither of us were going to have sex that night.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We chatted some about our sexual frustrations with our spouses. I could feel the tension between us. Fueled by the alcohol, I leaned in and kissed her on the lips. She kissed back, but the the shock hit both of us. We separated and I apologized. She said it was fine. We sat in an awkward silence. She took my hand and led me to behind my shed. We began kissing again. Our hands exploring each other. My erection was pushing into her stomach. She moved her hand into my shorts and began stroking me. I couldn’t take any more and laid her down on the grass. I pulled her shorts to the side and began to lick and finger her wetness.

I continued for a few minutes till she pushed me off and said we needed some place more private. With out really thinking I stood her up and pulled her towards my basement. In my basement we both quickly stripped and she pushed me down on the couch. She gave me a very short blow job, then straddled me and guided my cock into her pussy. She was definitely tighter than my wife. She rode my cock while we kissed and I played with her nipples. She came and let her body fall onto mine. She kissed me and said it was was my turn to cum. I smiled and picked her up and laid her down on the floor. I fucked her in missionary, then had get on her knees and fucked her doggie style. She said she came again as my load filled her pussy. We were both exhausted by this point so we cleaned up and I walked her back to her house.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I saw her hubby outside doing the yard work and told him that it was a great party. It was 2 more days till I saw her. It was a little awkward talking to her in front of my wife. We got a few minutes of alone time and said it had to just be a one time fling and t hat we both were feeling very guilty. But I couldn’t stop thinking about how tight she was and how risky it was about getting caught. She had the same feelings. We began having sex again 2 months later. At first it was every few weeks and it went up to once a week, till she got pregnant 2 years later. I did have a vasectomy during those 2 years, so I’m sure the child was not mine.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked with a college friend and he told me it was going to end ugly. It did not.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The amazing sexual relationships

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It took away sexual attraction for my wife

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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