The Wait Was Worth It.



What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Fontana
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? NA
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

The Wait Was Worth It.

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Monica is 4 years younger than me. I first met her about 22 years ago when she used to hang out with my younger sister. She was a thin, cute Latina. To her I was my sister’s cute older brother….

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She friend requested me on Facebook. We hadn’t talked in 20 years. I saw some pictures (she was thick and gorgeous) so I messaged her on Facebook, we messaged back and forth for about a week and decided to go out on a Friday night 7/1/17….

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So, for our date we decided to go to a comedy club, or so I thought. She lived about 20 minutes away from me. On my way to pick her up she called and said she really didn’t feel like leaving the house and asked if I would be cool with grabbing a 6 pack and watching a movie at her place. And of course I was good with that. When I got to her house and she answered the door, she was wearing this cute sun dress that was showing ALL her curves!! We had a quick little embrace and as she started showing me around her apartment, we were chatting and sorta doing a quick little catch-up about each other. After the tour, we both grabbed a beer and sat on the couch facing each other chatting about what we thought about each other back in the day and she told me she had a crush on me back then and I told her I thought she was cute. She got up to get another beer and when she came back she sat closer to me and before I knew it we were kissing, which led to us laying on the couch making out. Then she asked if I wanted to go to the bedroom and fool around and I said yes. We went to her room and got right on the bed continuing where we left off. I started kissing her neck and working my way down, kissing her tits which were out of her dress by now, then her stomach until I finally lifted her dress and discovered she wasn’t wearing any panties. I was hard as a rock by now. I pulled her dress completely off and took my clothes off as well and proceeded to kiss her bare inner thighs, her sexy scent making me hornier by the second! I went back up to kissing her neck again placing cock at the entrance of her wet vagina. As I started to enter her her she tightened her legs I pulled back and rubbed my cock up and down on her vagina lips. After about a minute or so I tried to enter her again this time she opened her legs wider and I was fully inside her slowly rocking back and forth for about 30 seconds until I found myself firmly thrusting as deep as I could. I told her I waited 20 years for this moment! She kept telling me not to stop and to come inside her…We fucked for a good 15 minutes until I exploded inside her then collapsed beside her…I ended up staying til 3am and we had sex 3 more times that night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued seeing each other for about 2 months then just kind of broke it off.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told my brother, he as kinda surprised

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was the the fact that 20 years before I wondered what it would be like to sleep with her and I finally got the chance.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is great if both people are on the same level.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great.

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